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skinnydip
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 58
0 miles · Blaenau Gwent
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Warming the Bed
Hi all,
As you can see from my profile im now permanently living in Spain. I am coming to the yorkshire area to do some Xmas shopping, arriving December 7th for two nights.
I am hoping to revisit La Chambre in Sheffield. As I am alone i will be there on Friday ( singles allowed ). I would really prefer to leave Uk with a bang by going on Sat 8th but need a partner:
I miss the English hospitality, and feel sure there is a girl out there who would love to join the fun. Pleaase look at my profile and if you are keen, please get in touch. If nothing else I am good company and we will have a great night. X
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This is mainly for admin. When looking at gallery pics, if you see someone who takes your interest, your next stop is the profile. Is it worth trying to contact. oh Great Britain, thats all right then, just round the corner.
Sorry for being a bit sarcy, is it possible to give at least county if not town details. I know it is possible to look elsewhere but it would help a bit.
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YOu know thats why i like this forum, I reread my profile and your absolutly correct. Its now rewritten a bit and i hope a bit softer.
Good luck and please help others if you see anything a bit iffy. It is appreciated. I think you will agree we are on a very steep learning curve, its easy to fall to one side if not careful.
Phil aka Skinnydip
Warming the Bed
Thanks on behalf of the many "temporarily" single guys out here for the advice. Its worth remembering all couples were two singles before they met. I agree a club is the great way of meeting people one on one. If only to get to know the scene more.
My one request, if single girls or couples advertise for single guys and somebody takes the time to send a genuine e-mail, please drop a note if only to say no thanks. It can be very disheartening signing on, only to find an empty mail box. I often wonder if the people really exist in the first place.
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Before i start, can i just say, as someone also fairly new, this advice is my personal opinion only. It is intended to help and be of assistance. I myself asked for advice / critisism on my profile and recieved little help.
I am not gay, not that that matters in the slightest.
If i am selling a car, (and in a way we are trying to sell ourselves) would I put high mileage or good, dependable ride. So maybe miss out negative things like inexperienced in the bedroom. Why not highlight what you are good at, ie great foreplay. Lots of girls would chop of thier arms for a guy more interested in bringing them to a state of ecstasy, than a one way shag experience. You then say age not important and will go anywhere, anytime. I am not saying play hard to get but dont appear desperate either. Finally if you have more pics, show them. One may be just the one that gets the reaction you are looking for.
Please take this in the spirit its intended. If you have the time, look at mine and be brutal if you feel necessary.
Good luck, hope it works well for you.
Skinnydip.
Warming the Bed
Maybe im doing something wrong, but when looking at gallery pics and then accessing thier profiles, i cant find where the person is from, so sometimes not sure whether to make contact as maybe in completely wrong location. I know it is possible to find in another way but a simple county in the profile would be of use to me and maybe others
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Missed your halloween bash, as couldnt fly back in time. Gutted when i saw the pics on your profile from the party. Yet again my timing is out as im back 24th November for a few days. Would have crawled full length of the country on broken glass to attend but im out by a couple of weeks. Now the questions i am sure im not alone in asking.
1/ Are you disappearing of the face of the earth. Im in spain but still enjoy the site, even tho i always miss the best parties.
2/ If you do have any more parties can you send them to me on my electronic address ie my nickname followed by my current country of residence at very warm post . moc (im a bit backwards)
Someone as stunning as you should not be allowed to leave. Its a crime against humanity.
HUGS AND KISSES
in wherever you end up (please say Spain)
Phil (aka skinnydip)
Post edited 11-11-2005 15:35
Warming the Bed
If just redone my profile, and would ask anybody who is more experianced in these things than me, to look it over and offer any advice they can give. Please be honest, as if you never make mistakes, you never learn anything.
This is not a cynical attempt to get people to read my profile, but to try and improve.
Thanks
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A bit of market research needed, which will hopefully help everybody.
I had a picture of me on the gallery fully clothed,for a week or so. Got 25 hits. Then posted one nude with head attached a day or so ago and got 9 hits. The one nude but headless got 15 upto now.
Is this all meaningless, probably but may be an inDICation of what people like to look at.
I could also be ugly, but i hope not. please be kind.
phil (aka skinnydip)
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Can any of you Knowledgeable people let me know of any of the above venues that i could visit on return to UK on 24th November for a week. Better still if there are any parties i can gate crash / get an invite to.
I am very easy going and have a gsoh. I was told about a club called La Chambre, is it worth a visit or not ? .
Thanks XXXX ;)
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If you check out my profile you will see where im from, ie Marbella in Spain. On 24th November im back in uk for a week, in north England area, Centered around Sheffield. Would love help on local activities, swinging clubs or other like minded meeting places. If your in the area and recommend somewhere you go there will be a drink waiting for you there with a warm and genuine hello from me.
Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this
Phil (aka skinnydip) xxxx
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Sorry if you misunderstood me meli, the reason i replied was cos i read your profile which says looking for a single guy. My thread was basically it is difficult replying to a gallery pic with loads of hits aand then hearing nothing, it is very easy to lose heart and not email those of you who would like to really meet someone genuine. My intentions were good if misinterpreted, but i wish you well in your search. x
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Seems we are mirror images of the same problem. did you see my thred on new and nervous forum" this is hard "
Well if thats the problem, it doesnt take a genious to work out the solution. if you like what you see and would like a proper email with more photos (of your choice , you tell me ! ) let me know.
bi for now X X X
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Is it just me,whenever i go on to the gallery it looks just like a gynacologists manual. Now i am not the biggest guy on the site, or the smallest i can assure you (at least i am honest), surely you girls are looking for more than a pic of an erect penis. I find a sexy, provocative photo of a girl much more enticing than a close up of her bits. Its like eating your dessert before the starter and main course.
Personally i have had a better result since using a full body photo, than trying to out inch the entire male membership. If girls are then interested they can have photos on demand of whatever.
Girls , what do you think ????????????
:-?
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Only recently joined, have sent quite a few emails but no replies yet. it would be nice to get a thanks but no thanks. whan i see pics with over 10000 hits, you girls must be inundated with emails . do you just delete without reading. if so thats a shame as there are a few genuinely nice singles out here waiting to get to know you a bit better.
