Greg. We agree, better to get a response that none at all, so true...If people wish to make comment they will say how they see it, good or bad...Its about being part of a community and some have lots to say about lots of things (like us)...However, this does not mean we are correct, it is simply a viewpoint based upon what we are given to act upon...And yes we thought the reason for split was probably deeper!!...xxx
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jelandn
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 67
Straight Male, 67
0 miles · Gloucestershire
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Referring back to recent thread about people pretending to be who they are not - Clearly some believe that the way to succeed is to try and cheat/lie your way into peoples good books, assuming that others are blinkered by a desire for sex. However, as most sensible people will know this is not the case and will endeavour to build relationships via chat and messaging...Generally that is where any deceit is uncovered, either in chatroom or this can create a generic distrust of single guys... However, as with all things there are some really nice, honest guys that play with respect and have gained trust through actions and words...xxx
And back to the thread...WARNING - Many people are not honest on their profiles...There will always be exceptions and we recognise the validity of the previous comments, but I suggest that most who have incorrect info in profile do so to try and gain advantage of one form or other. From a personal perspective these are people that we would choose to not be involved with - and yes that includes married ladies posing as singles, whatever the viewpoint of the partner...Each to their own...xxx
"i have tried most things in life and would like to broaden my horisons but unfortunatly my last girlfriend did not, so here i am single". I wonder how many people will respond postively to someone that advertises via open forum that they apparently came out of a relationship because the partner did not wish to broaden their horizons? From a personal perspective and experience I think prepare to be underwhelmed is adequate. However, early days and happy to corrected by the number of peeps that swing with Greg...Time will surely tell!!...lol
I suggest that eveybody receiving messages should deal with them as they see fit and appropriate, just as they do with other mail or email at home!! And anybody not receiving a response can assume 'no thanks', just like any other junk mail initiator!! Its called freedom of choice by recipients. And yes we choose to respond, but that is simply exercising our choice, not a requirement or being old fashioned...xxx
Hey Jay/Tanya clearly we were not in room at the time you were 'invisible'. We always make a beeline for you guys, because we know you will have found the beer and voddie stash hidden by Charlie/Chris!!. Also, we shan't ask about any list because we are confident in the knowledge that we shall meet at some stage (if only to rag your arses about all this stuff!!)...xxxx
Hi Us4u, we know this site works...Clearly your previous profile did not have required effect and the changes made have been positive, perhaps others can learn that the problem sometimes is not what we say, but the way we say it, and how people 'sell' themselves will create interest or otherwise...xxx
Single males are not banned, but simply have a certain stigma within the couples community, due mainly to some idiots that think getting access to women on this site is a right, rather than a privilege. Take care, exercise an element of caution with comments in chat and above all have respect for women in this lifestyle...Best of luck...xxx
