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Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 54
Straight Male, 62
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:thumbup:Great thread this Debbie!!
Well we run our own business, we are property developers. Which has its advantages but also its disadvantages.
Rennovating something that is a shell or building from scratch and turning it into something lovely is really satisfying.....and watching people move into a lovely home that we have acheived for them, puts a smile on our faces.
However, the hard hats, dust and muck, plays havoc with the complexion and hair lol.
Its long hours but very rewarding, I leave all the dirty stuff to Mr Cams and I enjoy the interior designing side and the finishing touches........what a typical woman I am lol
Good luck in finding a job you love Debbie!!
Steph & Danny xx
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As most of you know, we havent been on the site long, so we can only speak as we find!!
So far we have been lucky, we have not had any abuse thrown at us, and we are sorry to hear that some of the nicest, genuine people on here, have, for whatever reason, no one deserves grief.
The way we look at it is, for the sado's that think they are being clever by causing trouble, the first thing you should do is ignore them and I know this is hard for some people.
Swinging does not control your everyday lifestyle, it is purely a fun hobby!! If you decide to leave (which you have the right to), it just means they win!!.
The whole point of this site, is to have fun, meet people or even just chat and make friends....if a friend of yours, or a neighbour was giving you the same abuse, what would you do?? You would either ignore them, or take action in which way you could.
All the Mods on here do a fantastic job, remember they are on here to have fun as well, if you get kicked or reported, then YOU are doing something wrong and you have to accept that and either stop it, apologise or leave.
But for all you fellow swingers out there, the Mods will help as best as they can, although they cannot control situations with txts etc.
All we can say is WELL DONE to our Mods, you have a brave job and its about time all us genuine swingers stuck together, started to have fun and bring this site back to where it once began!!
Right thats our say over and done with.........time to relax, enjoy and be friendly!!
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Oooooh Serens.....love an outdoor adventure lol :happy:
Direct Debit set up!!!!! This site costs a fortune for fun lol.....and I think Northy deserves a written warning for a no show!! 
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He..He....people, the names do make me laugh......although MO like the Sir Lickalot...think I should change Mr Camalot to Mr Lickalot from now lol.
And Northy, dont you worry us ladies have plenty to hold, we never go short lol......and Im getting worried about you, you got a plastic bag fetish!!!!!!!!
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Ok so thats, a chief referree we now how, intig, on the team, northy as chief cleaner, a water boy, a bell ringer.........paypal being put in place......ebay dumped!!
Mr Cams, Mr Serens, Mr Ceylon & Mr MWM as coaches.
Best blow me paddling pool up today, to get some practice in.......any tips???????
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Normal service and drinks!!!!! Whoo hoo!!!
Nice to see SP 
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Fluffy & Bumbley, can we just say, we dont know you guys that well, but always see you about!! We have no idea what the rumour is but can we just say, you guys are way above these sad individuals and like everyone has said, the genuine people no the truth!!.
You are doing a great job in organising MK3 and as host and hostess you have to be there, and claim he credit you both deserve!!
Steph & Danny xx
Twoontwo,
All we can say is, trust your instinct, and if you have any doubts, then dont go there!!
I'm sure all of us on here have a story to tell. We have had similar things happen too. We wont meet people unless, we have either seen them on cam, or had a telephone conversation etc.
Equally, we make an effort so other people can see we are genuine, we are always honest, as people on here know, we are on cam most weekends and we have no problem with telephone communication with people.
Yes it is true, that we also have busy lives, kids etc, so yes sometimes, arrangments can be genuinly postponed.....but if people are genuine they explain and rearrange, but truthfully that only happens on the one occassion or people keep in contact and give as much notice as possible of the situation.
Sounds to us like a timewaster, or a single guy!!
If people are on here, never with the intention of meeting anyone, just want some company, or cam fun.....just be honest about it, theres nothing wrong with that, just find people who want the same thing.
Like we said before, if the warning signs are flashing.....theres a reason.
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Unbelievable!!!!!. Mork and Mindy, were two of the most nicest, intellegent, honest, level headed people we have ever chatted to!
They deserved there place on SP and certainly didnt deserve that utter abuse and rubbish that was thrown at them.
What it boils down to is pure jealousy!!!!
Anyone can be envious, but jealousy is a dangerous game, and if small minded people want to throw abuse because they are jealous, just shows what time of people they are!!!
I think this thread just shows how much Mork and Mindy were respected and we are just so sorry that they have left. They will be sadly missed!
Steph & Danny xx Madchick, we can totally understand where you are coming from......each individual and couple has there rules and boundaries and everybody must show a mutual respect......just because everyone elses ideas seem right to them.....doesnt mean that you have to conform.
Although we agree that kissing sometimes heightens the passion there is also a part of us that feels on occassion that it can be almost too intimate. Although without kissing it may feel that something is lacking but it depends on the couple, the circumstances etc etc......but despite everything you should only do what you are comfortable doing and people should respect that.
We have boundaries and sometimes that has put people off meeting us, but hey, it just means they werent the right people for us.....but I agree with you Madchick sometimes it does make you wonder whether you are the odd ones out!!
Ceylon hun......what can we say, totally on our wavelength and you are a prime example on how we should all conduct ourselves and accept everyones rules and boundaries......GOOD ON YA!!!! xx
Steph & Danny xxx:thumbup:
