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brianofnazareth
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53
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Personally, I find confidence and independence to be the sexiest attributes a person can have and that usually comes with age and experience. You can sometimes find it in a younger person but it's often just bluster and underneath is some deep insecurity. Which is not to say that you won't find a 40-year old with all the angst or a 17 year old (and I seem to attract them like a feckin' magnet) but it's rarer.
Of course, long legs help too. :cheers:
[quote user=mwm69][quote user=oliviak].... but True wouldn't be True without a debate of some sort... 
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Lol, True's not silly...he uses the Forums as advertising, and it works. But then again don't we all? :bounce:[/quote]
That's a nasty lie, I've never advertised here. Not even the new improved me with extra anti-bacterial agent.
Sheesh.
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Lol, True's not silly...he uses the Forums as advertising, and it works. But then again don't we all? :bounce:[/quote]
That's a nasty lie, I've never advertised here. Not even the new improved me with extra anti-bacterial agent.
Sheesh. [quote user=northlondon12]beats me that one.......................brian you got any fukkin pants on under that if u aint i aint postin under you............u be danglin yer dick on me ed ugghhh.
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Northy, how could I wear poants under that? I'd be letting a nation of 4 million down!!
On a personal level, I think the thing that annoys me most about the "Advice to" threads is that the preposition in that instance should be "for", not "to".
I understand a few of the frustrations that true obviously has encountered, but I have reached a stage in my life where I try not to take it personally. If someone doesn't want to speak to me, I accept that I am not their thing and move on. If they don't reply to me, I don't necessarily assume that I'm being ignored - I've missed enough posts and whispers in there directed to me to know better. And to be honest, if they are being deliberately rude, then they're not the sort of person I want to have anything to do with anyway. Manners maketh the man.
I am a single male in a "target rich" environment. Some of us may be lions, but we're hiding amidst a pack of hyenas. There are always far more single males in the chatroom than just about anything else but the majority of them sit around without participating in any form, simply waiting for the pornography on the cams to start, which is when the feeding starts; it's why I won't go into the chatroom on Friday or Saturday - it's a meat market and frankly it makes my skin crawl.
Yes, there are some women in the room that relish the exhibitionist side of their nature and play cock-tease. Power to them, frankly, and if I get to spank the monkey while they do it, I'm exploiting them for my sexual gratification as much as they're exploiting me.
Finally, I don't judge what purpose people put this site to. It's a community and that means different things to different people. I know of and have played with a group in Oxford that use only the messaging elements of the site and none of social elements. None of them are "established" and none of them leave comments for each other. They simply swap details and shag each other senseless. Some of them are single fems. None of them will have anything to do with anyone outside of the Oxford area. Are they wrong in this respect? I am not, nor is anyone else, in a position to decide that. This is their community as much as it is mine and these are the terms of their participation. The rest of us have to live with it.
So as far as I'm concerned, to paraphrase Voltaire, I may not agree with how you swing, but I shall defend unto spanking your right to swing that way.
Brian - Peace Out.
No, that's fine, I wouldn't want to kiss Jason anyway... :bounce:
I think it's like everything else, you go with what you're comfortable with at the time and in the mood. No-one here's looking to break up a relationship, so at the end of the day, it's what you and he are happy to do.
Have fun, above all else!!!
xxxx
[quote user=ellie_n_jay]I suppose that was because all the royalty and nobility were Normans then. English was more the language of the people.
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Well, that was true of England. In Scotland, the King (I think it was Malcolm III) had married an English princess who was incapable of learning Gaelic, so the court spoke English out of politeness to her.
We're nothing if not courteous, we Scots. Not like the Welsh. :moon:
And I have to say, Robbie Williams deserves a slap, preferrably with a 28lb sledgehammer.
h well that came out wrong lol brian your seduction method needs attention! all this anti welsh tripe...shame on you...gayboy lol[/quote]
If I'm a gayboy, why would I be trying to seduce you? Silly girl....