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babydevil
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 53
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Casanova
I was in the room last night to witness this unpleasant and unwarranted attack.. this behaviour will not be tolerated in anyway shape or form either viawhispers or in the open room.
As is my mantra in life - if you dont like someone then leave them alone, if you cant leave them alone then you dont belong on sp. :fury:
Unfortunately it is a sad fact that we cannot act until someone has actually been seen to be offensive, but rest assured that member will be dealt with.
Post edited 18-07-2007 10:14
eye: Casanova
oooh... can't wait til oct when I'll be sunning myself in florida ( a WELL-deserved break I add!)... tho knowing my luck florida will be hit by the worst hurricane in decades and the uk will be having an indian summer - wonder if those words will come back to haunt me?...... :-?
Casanova
hi!.. first thing you need to do is change your status to that of a couple.. it is very important that from the start members can see who they are speaking to and no confusion arises.
Secondly, try using the search members facility on the home page. By entering your postcode it will list all members in that area - alternitvely, use the advanced search where you can be more specific.
Come into the chatroom sometimes - I know it can be daunting and it can seem like everyone knows everyone else... but remember we were all new once!! This is an ideal way to chat and make friends- it also gives members an idea about who you are : your likes/dislikes etc.
Happy swinging! xxx
Casanova
my only 'gripe' as it were is this.. as mindy said decisions like these are not taken lightly. The trouble seems to be that mods and admins decisions are increaingly being challenged. Now we as a team have nothing to hide and are always on hand to help anybody out.. bur we also need to be respected too and I guess trust has broken down on both sides. Sometimes we censor things because it does blatently break aup rules... sometimes its because it serves no purpose being in the public eye.. and before you all shout at me, banned members are not up for discusion in public or private with any other member and that decision is final.
So can we please work out these problems and get back to what we are all on this site for??
:doggy: :moon: :wank: 
Casanova
This social is still going ahead despite problems on site recently - so if your still interested in coming along for an evening of fun heehee... put your names here and I will make a list of who to mail with all the details... please and thank you 
Post edited 22-06-2007 9:15
Post edited 22-06-2007 10:31
Post edited 22-06-2007 9:15
Post edited 22-06-2007 10:31 Casanova
ok.. best advice I can give you is not to be an eager beaver
There is a thread in the new and nervous forum- 'chat tips for newbies'. That has become our bible on this site and it is pretty damned good advice!. We are all here to have fun but also we treat every other member here with the utmost respect, if not then I'm afraid you will find it hard to mix ine into the chatroom when your ready, it can be fast and scary (hmm.. bit like me heehee) but you'll soon get the hang of it.
Welcome and enjoy your time here xx
There is a thread in the new and nervous forum- 'chat tips for newbies'. That has become our bible on this site and it is pretty damned good advice!. We are all here to have fun but also we treat every other member here with the utmost respect, if not then I'm afraid you will find it hard to mix ine into the chatroom when your ready, it can be fast and scary (hmm.. bit like me heehee) but you'll soon get the hang of it.
Welcome and enjoy your time here xx 
Casanova
ok guys... a LOT of people had the same problem last night, some got into the room ok but many, including me!, were left unable to access it. I did eventually get onto the site at 2am and found it to be running ok then.
We can only apologise to all the members who had difficulty getting into the site last night... the chatroom hasn't crashed at all since certain issues were sorted as ur4it states ( tho have no idea what he is talking about as I am a blonde female lol) but hope all is ok from now on. You guys have been so patient, well most of you anyway, and admin is working hard behind the scenes for you x
