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qanda
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 79
Straight Female, 73
0 miles · Surrey
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Sex God
With great sadness we regret that we shall be unable to attend MK5:cry:. We are in the process of selling my late parents bungalow & this is the only week end we have available to do the house sale & clear everything out. We are absolute gutted still hope you all have a great week end
Love Q & A xxxx
Sex God
FEVER PARTY RULES
1. ACCEPTING THE RULES
Everyone who applies for a Fever party explicitly accepts these rules which are designed as much for the security and comfort of guests as they are for those holding the events.
2. PRIVACY
Privacy and security are our priorities. Peace of mind is a vital ingredient of an uninhibited evening and we try hard to protect our events from unwanted intrusion. The locations of our events and the other arrangements are strictly private to Fever and our invited guests. You must not divulge them to third parties as this may compromise the privacy of all concerned.
3. SPYING
It goes without saying that cameras and recording devices of all descriptions are banned. This includes picture phones and video phones. If you have one of these phones it must be switched off and not used anywhere in the party. If you are seen with one you will be asked to leave with your partner. They may only be produced in the cloakrom at the end of the night to call a taxi.
4. TURN UP TOGETHER
We do not let single men into our events. Period. Even though you will have paid, if your partner is not with you then your invitation does not apply. We never bend this rule.
5. NO SWAPPING (BEFOREHAND!)
Invitations to our parties are personal and non-transferrable. No one whose details and photo have not been submitted in advance will be admitted. We select couples as couples and if you turn up with a different partner you are a different couple and your Invitation is void.
6. DON'T BRING YOUR FRIENDS
Only couples we have invited will be admitted. Others will be turned away however strongly they may be recommended to us. Our selection process is very competitive with sometimes room for only around half of new applicants to be sucessful each time. We issue invitations to as many couples as the venue can comfortably accommodate. There is no room for walk-ins, nor is it fair on those who have applied (whether successful or not) to admit people who have not been through the same selection process as everyone else. If you want your friends to come, they must apply in the normal way.
7. REAL COUPLES
We insist that the couples at our parties are 'real' couples - you must have a genuine sexual relationship, although it doesn't have to be an exclusive one (obviously!). Friends who team up just to find out "what it's like" are not acceptable.
8. NO PROFESSIONALS
We are happy for couples at our parties to have any sort of sexual relationship with each other - except punter and prostitute. Don't try it. Some men bring prostitutes to swinging clubs and it sticks out a mile. We had this problem at a previous party and the people concerned were ejected.
9. BE THOUGHFUL IN THE PLAYROOMS
Do not distract people enjoying themselves by holding loud conversations. Do not smoke in the playrooms or take your glasses and drinks into them. We provide plastic water bottles which are the only drinks you can take into the play areas.
10. ARRIVE ON TIME
To ensure the party reaches critical mass in time for everyone to have fun, we ask guests to arrive between 9 and 10 pm. In addition our staff are volunteers and they don't want to stand on door duty all night. Special arrangements can always be made to admit couples late if a problem is notified in advance.
11. DRESS CODE
We don't have a strict dress code, we only ask that people enter into the spirit of the evening. Women tend to wear their sexiest, slinkiest outfits - cocktail dresses or any special creations - while most guys are in smart casual stuff.
There won't be much fetish gear around, maybe some PVC or leather or some chains. But if you have a zipped rubber gimp-mask, leave it at home.
12. AC/DC
Our parties are for straight men and straight and bisexual women. This formula is the standard swinging convention across the world and reflects the consensus of opinion among both male and female swingers of all countries. (On the continent it is widely believed that maybe 80% of women are potentially bisexual whereas at least 80% of men are not). Couples with men who break this convention will be asked to leave.
This does not mean that couples with bisexual men are unwelcome. It means that when they apply, they explicitly agree that the male partner will be straight at the party.
13. DON'T BE A PEST
Social situations in swinging parties are subtle and fluid, so it is difficult to define pestering precisely. It certainly includes touching people if you have been rebuffed but it can also be less than that. Consent is the key to swinging and all couples should be sensitive to the reactions of others. If we feel or are told that you are pestering someone, you and your partner will be asked to leave.
14. NO SELLING OR PROMOTING
Our parties are not business opportunities. Approaching people at Fever parties to promote other products or events is an abuse of our hospitality. Anyone who does this will be asked to leave with their partner.
15PULSORY CONDOMS
At Fever events, all penetrative sex between people who are not regular partners is with a condom unless explicitly agreed otherwise in advance. It is a man's responsibility to use a condom without being prompted by the woman concerned and to signal to her in an appropriate way that he is doing so.
Repeat: without being prompted by the woman concerned. It is a guy's job to put a woman's mind at ease without being asked.
Everyone is absolutely entitled to expect this basic sexual hygiene practice. We act immediately and severely in response to complaints. We provide condoms but you'd be wise to carry a few yourself, whether you are male or female!
16. ONE WOMAN, ONE CONDOM
Men must change condoms between sexual partners. Transferring an infection from one woman to another on the outside of a condom while the male is safe on the inside does not qualify as sexual hygiene.
If a man is in a scene where he is alternating between women, the rule still applies unless they all, together, give their explicit verbal consent. There are plenty of condoms at our parties and it does not matter how many are used and discarded during a scene.
We take this seriously and do not give second chances to people who let us down.
17. THE RED CARD
All our rules are reasonable. They represent a common sense way of enabling everyone to enjoy themselves. If we have to ask a couple to leave because they have broken these rules we will neither refund their contribution nor admit them to future events.
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