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kinkynuns
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 64
Bi-curious Female, 61
0 miles · Milton Keynes
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Warming the Bed
Have not heard about Vigrande but I have used Kamagra for last 2 years.
Like most guys who actualy use these tabs, I use them for recreational sex and find them great.
I have been in this scene for 10 years and can honestley say these little blue ones have given both the guys and the girls a boost, and they are producing Loveagra now, little pink ones for the ladies and my wife gives them the big :clap:
Anyone thats wants some more info on them drop us a line
Pete & Jane :doggy:
Warming the Bed
No its not full of time waster, and you will find a lot of couples do meet other couples and some will meet singles but internet sites and the people who use them especially if new to the scene will take a lot longer to get to the meeting stage.
I (Pete) have been in the swinging and fetish scene for 10 years 7 of those years as a single before I met my horney, sexy wife Jane, who I met through the internet and who came to my club as a single girl (I bless that day every year)
When I first came on the scene it was contact mags or clubs (and those clubs were sauna based or brothels used as swinging clubs at the weekend). It took a lot of effort, time, money and travelling, not just posting a picture of my dick and saying ‘want to fuck me girls'.
We now run a club in Dunstable for the last 4 years, and most of the people who attend have never been on an internet swinging site, but we have had some really cool people from this site attend, see comments on our profile.
Also you have to remember, your only bringing yourself to the party, so would we as a couple jump at an invitation to meet you, no, we can play with couples or singles (and we do) any time we want. You have to make yourself available to couples or get a single girl interested and go to parties or clubs or dogging where other like minded people go.
All of that may have seemed a bit harsh, but its just the facts, the single guys that attend our parties are not treated as second class citizens because they have made the effort. They are not guaranteed anything but a cool venue and to be in the company of other couples & singles, the rest is still up to you.
Pete & Jane
:doggy:
Warming the Bed
Well its nearly the weekend again and Arousal Swinging club are ready to party again
:clap:
Friday: Is Ladies Choice (or greedy girls!) night, for Couples & Singles, open from 10pm to 4am.
Saturday: Is Couples only St Trinians (dress code not compuslsary, but an easy one to do) from 10pm to 7am
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We have over 5000 sqft 20 play rooms, soft drinks bar (you can bring your own alcohol), mini cinama and dance floor.
Check out the comments on our profile on those that have been from this site.
Drop us a line to get booked in for this weekends Parties at Arousal (Often copied, never bettered).
As one of our members has on a T shirt, good girls go to heaven, Bad girls go to Arousal
:P
Pete & Jane :doggy:
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We have over 5000 sqft 20 play rooms, soft drinks bar (you can bring your own alcohol), mini cinama and dance floor.
Check out the comments on our profile on those that have been from this site.
Drop us a line to get booked in for this weekends Parties at Arousal (Often copied, never bettered).
As one of our members has on a T shirt, good girls go to heaven, Bad girls go to Arousal
:P
Pete & Jane :doggy: Warming the Bed
Try a swingers club - no pressure. See the comments on our profile about our (VERY REAL) club tho we can also recommend others in different parts of the country if ours (Arousal) is not convenient to you.
Come & meet real people, stop wasting your time with IT nerds and phone sex :wank: w*****s!
Kind & Kinky regards,
Jane & Pete xx :doggy:
Post edited 29-09-2005 16:47
Warming the Bed
Just wanted to say whay a great night we had at the Arousal club and some of the couples & singles who came from this site and partied the night away with us for our clubs 4th birthday bash.
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We are all now recovering :rainbow: and getting ready for this Saturday, we run every Saturday and every other Friday.
Have to say the lovely peeps that have been from this site (both couples & singles) have been realy nice and sexy people.
Take a look at some of the comments they have left on our profile to see that we and our club our real and that you to can meet lots of real people who just want to have a sexy liberated time.
Pete & Jane :doggy:
Warming the Bed
Hi folks, we run a swinging club in Bedfordshire and we are celebrating our clubs (Arousal) 4th birthday this weekend, we are running a Couples only event on the Friday and a Couples & (Limited) Singles party on the Saturday. Arousal has over 20 fantasy play rooms including a dance area and a cinema, have a look at the comments on our profile for some feedback on couples and singles that have been to Arousal.
Contact us on here if you would like to attend a real swinging club that has a sexy but chilled out atmosphere, we are always happy to answer any questions you may have.
Pete & Jane
:doggy:
Warming the Bed
I didn't mean that to sound so cross! Sorry - was only teasing.
And seriously, clubs are a great no-pressure way to meet swingers, to chat & relax & to take things further if both parties feel like it.
We run one club but can recommend others in other parts of the country too.
Kind & Kinkies,
Jane x
8)
Warming the Bed
Perhaps if you responded to others' invitations?!! Have sent you details about a brilliant swingers' club in Bedfordshire, one of the best in the country that has been running for nearly 4 years - and you never even acknowledged our email, let alone thanked us for the info!
Manners count in this scene too however new & nervous you are!
Hope you find what you're looking for.
Kind & kinky regards,
Jane 
Warming the Bed
Would you be interested in a venue for your shoots. We hire out our swinging club for adult movies 'we have had 'Private' shoot here but can also hire out just parts of the club for smaller shoots. We are also putting together a list of singles & couples who come to the club that would like to apppear in films and photo shoots
Warming the Bed
Hi Trance,
With any swinging web site you have to remember you are lost in a sea of single guys, and couples who have no interest in single guys. So you should look for the key words that people put into their descriptions about if they want to know single guys or not, but remember if it was all so easy, you probably wouldn't bother . If your just interested in meeting a single girl to accompany you, good luck! Or better still join a singles site (that's how I met my swinging single girl).
Now some info I do know a bit more about having run a swinging club ‘Arousal' with my two partners for the last 5 years and being in the scene as a single for 5 years and as a couple for 3 years.
There are a few swinging clubs around (such as ours ‘Arousal') that cater for single people on the scene. You have to be a bit careful; as some of them can just be rip offs or brothels (although each to their own I just don't like them using our scene as a cover).
The main thing to remember is that the swinging scene is made up predominantly of couples and single guys (although a lot of them are not really single). Single women are in the scene; and I am pleased and proud of the fact that we are seeing more and more at our club, and from what they tell me they feel safer at our (and I expect other swinging clubs) than they do in vanilla (ordinary) night clubs or pubs. The other thing to remember is that these women are not usually after a relationship with anyone and may not even want to swing with just a single guy, they have their own reasons for being there the same as guys, so respect it!
There are a lot of couples who do not want to mix with anyone but other couples, so there are clubs that cater just for this group (and a lot of these are house parties). Then there are a few clubs like ours ‘Arousal' who cater for couples & singles with either parties for couples only on certain nights and parties for couples & singles on other nights.
I often forget how bewildering it can seem to someone who is totally new to the scene (but not a lot different to some fetish clubs, by the way we do have a fetish section at ‘Arousal') and maybe I should right a starters guide to the club scene.
I'm not sure where you are based, but if you send me an email I will send you details of our club and of any I think that are any good near to you. Our club ‘Arousal' is 5000sqft and has over 20 play rooms and has been established for 4 years and runs every weekend 2 X couples only parties and 4 X couples & singles parties
Pete & Jane :doggy:
PS: I will get Jane to put a few words on a this site from the single female point of view, going to a swinging club, as she was still single when she came to my club for the first time.
Warming the Bed
Hi everyone, do you want a place to meet other people from this site, or just meet lots of other 'real' liberated adults. We run a purpose built club in Dunstable (see profile) and have been doing this for 5 years, we are not amateurs but it's not expensive for either couples or singles to attend. We are offering a special package of FREE membership to the end of our membership year to anyone from this site.
Kinky Regards
Kinkynuns :doggy: [I]italic text here[/I]
Warming the Bed
So meet in the middle.
Our club, Arousal, has been running for nearly four years in Dunstable, Bedfordshire. Very relaxed, sexy & friendly. It's not a hoax, not a rip off, just a real club for liberated adults.
Please see our profile for more details.
Kind & Kinky regards,
Jane & Pete xx
Warming the Bed
Arousal in Dunstable has been running for nearly 4 years (4th birthday party weekend is 23 & 24 September) & is very relaxed, sexy & friendly. Absolutely NO pressure whatsoever!!
We have a "Meet & Greet" night on the 4th Friday of the month for newbie couples which includes a full tour of the club & introductions other members if you'd like that (or can leave you to find your own feet too if you'd prefer)
Please see our profile for further details. Jane & Pete xxx
Warming the Bed
Hi everyone, we have been on the site for a month and think it is one of the best sites we have been on. If you look at our profile we run a Liberated Adult club (swinging is beginning to sound a bit naff) 'Arousal' in Dunstable, if you want to know more; get in touch, always happy to tell you about our club, or if your to far away; any of the good clubs we know about in your area.
We just like having Lots of fun together and with Lots of other sexy peeps close at hand!
:doggy: [I]italic text here[/I]
Warming the Bed
We will be holding our meet & greet night, for couples & single ladies, this Friday (for singles guys see our next Friday date).
This will be a chilled out evening for you to see what our club is like and to meet other people from this site and a few of our regular members.
We our a private members club with over 20 fantasy rooms and for this introduction night, its just £10 per couple.
We sell soft drinks but you can bring you own alcohol.
Always happy to chat with as many of you as we can, and enjoy a chilled but sexy night.
Just drop us a mail for any more info
We are based in Dunstable
Kind & Kinky Regards
The Kinkynuns
Warming the Bed
Swinging is not just a couples thing at all. I don't know why you aren't getting replies but I'm afraid that it is likely to be something to do with your approach. Have you tried actual face to face contact at a swingers' club, for instance, rather than just sending emails which clearly isn't working for you....?
Warming the Bed
Hi, we are having a Friday (26th August) couples only night for newbie's to the scene, or if you're just still a bit nervous, or just haven't been to a swinging club before. We will have some of our regular members there and we will try to make it as natural as possible.
The night will be about showing you around, answering your questions about the club, the different etiquette for different nights and any other questions about the scene you may have, and most important, a nice chilled out night.
If this interests you please contact us for more information
Warming the Bed
Hi there, my name's Jane & I'm married to Pete who is one of the owners of Arousal in Dunstable, Bedfordshire. It's a swingers club with a cinema, dancefloor, dungeon & over 20 play rooms for steamy sexual encounters.
I'm the "new girls" chaperone & I'll be happy to talk to you single ladies about the club, meet you before your first party, show you around & stay with you on your first night or introduce you to some lovely peeps - whatever would help to make your first night relaxed & non-scarey.
Send a message to our mailbox if interested. Hope to hear from you soon.
Jane xxx
Warming the Bed
Hi we run a well established swinging club in Dunstable, and we are looking for an additional person for the bar (sorry guys already have two guys working, looking for an additioanl girl)
We are currently looking for additional bar staff for the Saturday nights. This can be a great way of meeting new couples or singles, while having also earning money. We run the bar from 9:30pm to 3:30am and then the rest of the night is yours (we are usually still open to 9am). If a couple, we maybe able to use the fella as doorman or help on extra busy nights.
Also anyone interested in becoming a member, couples or singles, get in touch.
Kinky regards Pete & Jane xx
:lick: :doggy:
Warming the Bed
Well it could be they are not premium members, or it could be that they are just getting swamped by guys saying “do you want to suck on this!”
As the male of this couple and not Bi (so I have no interest in this cock, for me), i know it gets irritating that the sender is just brushing you aside to get to the female, but I have found that the internet does breed this type of contact, but happily in the club scene and away from the internet most guys and women are great to get on with, be they couples or singles and they are the type that can put more than one sentence together.
Just a thought!
