Hi, I've joined this site this month. Had a bit of interest initially & then nothing. I've emailed a few people too. I'm a single guy & want to know if there is anybody out there who will accompany me to my first (& hopefully more )swinging party.
I've been into the fetish scene now for several years, so I figure I'm open-minded & am curious about looking into the swinging scene.
I've got a positive outlook & I'm easy to get along with.
Any body out there who can suggest what I need to do?
Thanks Trance. 8)
Best way to get to know people and more importantly let them get to know you is by going into the chatroom and joining in the chat. That's where most of the 'regulars' arrange meets, parties and whatever else.
Hi Trance,
With any swinging web site you have to remember you are lost in a sea of single guys, and couples who have no interest in single guys. So you should look for the key words that people put into their descriptions about if they want to know single guys or not, but remember if it was all so easy, you probably wouldn't bother . If your just interested in meeting a single girl to accompany you, good luck! Or better still join a singles site (that's how I met my swinging single girl).
Now some info I do know a bit more about having run a swinging club ‘Arousal' with my two partners for the last 5 years and being in the scene as a single for 5 years and as a couple for 3 years.
There are a few swinging clubs around (such as ours ‘Arousal') that cater for single people on the scene. You have to be a bit careful; as some of them can just be rip offs or brothels (although each to their own I just don't like them using our scene as a cover).
The main thing to remember is that the swinging scene is made up predominantly of couples and single guys (although a lot of them are not really single). Single women are in the scene; and I am pleased and proud of the fact that we are seeing more and more at our club, and from what they tell me they feel safer at our (and I expect other swinging clubs) than they do in vanilla (ordinary) night clubs or pubs. The other thing to remember is that these women are not usually after a relationship with anyone and may not even want to swing with just a single guy, they have their own reasons for being there the same as guys, so respect it!
There are a lot of couples who do not want to mix with anyone but other couples, so there are clubs that cater just for this group (and a lot of these are house parties). Then there are a few clubs like ours ‘Arousal' who cater for couples & singles with either parties for couples only on certain nights and parties for couples & singles on other nights.
I often forget how bewildering it can seem to someone who is totally new to the scene (but not a lot different to some fetish clubs, by the way we do have a fetish section at ‘Arousal') and maybe I should right a starters guide to the club scene.
I'm not sure where you are based, but if you send me an email I will send you details of our club and of any I think that are any good near to you. Our club ‘Arousal' is 5000sqft and has over 20 play rooms and has been established for 4 years and runs every weekend 2 X couples only parties and 4 X couples & singles parties
Pete & Jane :doggy:
PS: I will get Jane to put a few words on a this site from the single female point of view, going to a swinging club, as she was still single when she came to my club for the first time.
