I would like to thank the admin on the site. They seem to have in for a bit of stick recently. They, like everyone else, are entitled to an opinion, you may not agree or like their opinions, but they are entitled to it.
Everyone has different opinions on what is acceptable behaviour. I don't like complaining about other member's behaviour, but I will not let other people inconsideration spoil my fun on this site. If everyone uses their common sense and manners then everyone can have fun. The few times I have had to make complaints action has been taken straight away from admin.
This site would not run properly without admin. They are there to help us and to make sure the small minority do not spoil the majority's fun. It can't be that much fun dealing with everyone's complaints and differences of opinions.
So how about giving them a break & lets all get on with having some fun?
Well that's my opinion & I'm entitled to it!!!
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curvysue
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
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Cop, brilliant idea. last week I was on the website & got completely bombarded with whispers. I told those involved to stop & yet they decided to continue & thought it was funny. i realise now i should have copied & pasted it to admin, but didnt realise this was available at the time. I was really upset & very close to leaving the site entirely. Glad I never as I know that there are some really good people out there.
I specifically put on my profile that I prefer not to whisper, but feel free to drop me an email. I assume that those who are whispering have not taken the time to read my profile & therefore do not even know what I want & what I am looking for, they must me totally out for themselves. Well good luck to them, but who wants a meet with someone who is out for themsleves, they are burning their own bridges!!!!
Oooh, what happened to you? I am sorry you feel that way, but I think the forum has loads of handy information to those new on the site. People on the chatroom do not always have time to hold everyone new persons hand through the experiance, after all they are there to chat! There was a new thread put up in the new to this part of the forum called Chatroom Tips for Newbies. Apart from that if you haven't contacted anybody and they have contacted you, I don't understand how someone could have taken the piss out of you.
Hey ho, good luck if you decide to stay, you never know you might have some fun.
Wow Sudsy, were you up all night writing that??? 
I think its well written and I agree with everything you have to say. There is one thing I would like to add though about cams. The people on cam are not performing seals and I haven't met anyone yet who is actually a porn director. So I find that the vast majority of people do not appreciate comments like:
Can I see your t*ts
Get your p*ssy out
Are you up for a f*ck tonight
These are actual comments I have received and I will copy them onto the main chatroom. I will do what I want on cam. Compliments are nice and welcome but I don't like being told what to do. Again this is a personal view, but I know that a lot of people share this view.
This is not meant to put anybody new off the site, like Sudsy it is meant as a helpful guidline as to how to get on well on the site.
Good luck to all on the site xxxx
Grrrrrr to sudsy :P
I think its well written and I agree with everything you have to say. There is one thing I would like to add though about cams. The people on cam are not performing seals and I haven't met anyone yet who is actually a porn director. So I find that the vast majority of people do not appreciate comments like:
Can I see your t*ts
Get your p*ssy out
Are you up for a f*ck tonight
These are actual comments I have received and I will copy them onto the main chatroom. I will do what I want on cam. Compliments are nice and welcome but I don't like being told what to do. Again this is a personal view, but I know that a lot of people share this view.
This is not meant to put anybody new off the site, like Sudsy it is meant as a helpful guidline as to how to get on well on the site.
Good luck to all on the site xxxx
Grrrrrr to sudsy :P How about Chocolat - sweet & tasty - plus I love the film
Bonnie&Clyde - a pair of villains!!!!
My final thought (as it hurts to think too much) is either lustyleeds or lustinleeds, then nobody has to ask you where you live about - mind you there is always one or two who might still do so :D
Anyway it can always be shortened to lust or lusty
OK got brain ache now, I'm going for a lie down!!
Post edited 27-08-2006 18:04
Post edited 27-08-2006 18:04
My final thought (as it hurts to think too much) is either lustyleeds or lustinleeds, then nobody has to ask you where you live about - mind you there is always one or two who might still do so :D
Anyway it can always be shortened to lust or lusty
OK got brain ache now, I'm going for a lie down!!
Post edited 27-08-2006 18:04
Post edited 27-08-2006 18:04 re - I'll keep checking up to the 23rd to make sure young Robbie hasn't changed his concert date... or maybe he'll keep it as the 16th so he can come along himself ??
Sorry Robbie has a meet with me & Kel on the 16th, I know he wouldn't miss it for the world, so he definately will not be changing dates :lick:
I know there are some decent single guys on this site. I've met some them. There are quite a few men in the chat room who are lovely, polite, always respectful and lots of fun, Cat being one of those nice ones. In fact Cat is quite good at spotting the eijits and letting us know in his own unique way lol (big kiss for you babes).
A big thanks to Kel who is always full of advice as well.
I'm glad I just weeded the idiot out on the first email, not like the one I actually met, who had a problem remembering his correct age!!!
Hey ho, I still carry on sifting the eijits from the gentlemen.
Post edited 24-08-2006 17:54
I'll second Kel on that Cat xxxxx
Funny thing is that I just got an email on this site from a 36 year old man, well thats what he said in his email, however a quick check on his profile revealed thats he was 46!! He said in his email that he hoped I was genuine, mmm I commented that I was the one with photos & comments. He had no photos, not been established, no comments and was lying about his age. Cheek to ask me if I was genuine.
Another waste of space weeded out!!!!
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Post edited 29-07-2006 21:07
Hi manu, i think your a cracking guy & if you leave i will miss your humour & fun in the chatroom and I don't think I'm the only one. You made me feel welcome when I joined and gave me confidence & one of the few single guys that came across as a gent. I think you should stay a little longer and see how it goes. I know you never joined for friendship, but I think you have made some none the less, but whatever you do I wish you luck.
I really hope you stay sweetie xxxxxxxxxx
