It was I, Chad who first said to lilly once whilst possibly too much under the influence of alcohol,'id love to see you fuck other people'. Much to my surprise she said 'really' as to which i replied yes and here we are almost a year in and banging til our balls (well mine) turn blue. We honestly cannot say it was the best thing we ever did but it certainly was a big turning point for us both in our 12 year marriage. xxx