Hi guys both myself and my husband had thought about this question im asking, and we wondered who in the relationship first brought up the suggestion of swinging.....
In our case it was talked about after i found a couple of sites and Mr Clwyd caught me talking to other singles and couples about swinging :-o
Fortunately for me though Mr Clwyd was as enthusiastic about geting into the swing scene as me which sort of shocked me seeing as we had been together for 8 years and neither of us had ever mentioned to the other about wanting to swing.
So guys it would be great to see how other couples first decided on joining in the swing scene.......♥
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Who first suggested swinging Mr or Mrs ?
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:grin: its was me ( mo ), we were in bed one night when i asked what would he think to another female joining us ( not that i had anyone in mind i didn't really know what swinging was back then)worried as to what si would say and thinking he would think i was some kind of perv ( which i am now )He surprised me with mmmmm that could be fun, we then went on to have great sex fantasizing about another lady with us and what would be happening. we talked about where and how we would find this person, the next day i spent on line looking for sites and came across swinging, and boy was i shocked at how many people were doing it. over the years we have changed our rules, who we look for etc. God im so glad i mentioned it that night :haha:
mwah MO XX
For me it was shortly after my marriage breakup and depression kicking in that I was so fed up I said to a male friend that I was either gonna use men for sex or go gay! A lightbulb went off in his head and then we began an affair full of fabulous sex. It was him that mentioned had I thought of swinging.I hadnt of course but soon looked. I havent looked back since. It has boosted my confidence in general,I have learnt that I am bi and have made some wonderful friends aswell as had some damn good sex.
SP has changed my life.
Fruit xxx
I've said mrs, but for this reason. We've been together a long time and as you do we chat about this and that 
well it came up on a chat show about swinging when chris was at work, so i logged on and learned more. When chris came home i told him what i'd found and that we had been talking about was swinging, and he said "yeah, i came to that conclusion too" and hey presto... ta darrr... we're here. And as fruit said, we've not looked back either 
xxx kc xxx
well it came up on a chat show about swinging when chris was at work, so i logged on and learned more. When chris came home i told him what i'd found and that we had been talking about was swinging, and he said "yeah, i came to that conclusion too" and hey presto... ta darrr... we're here. And as fruit said, we've not looked back either
xxx kc xxx [color="cyan"]For us it was'nt a case of mr or mrs coming up with the idea of swinging we were both surfing the internet one day when things were quiet and we came across some swinging sites,we explored this area for a while and found that the prospect of swinging really appealed to us so we decided to take things further and so here we are.[/color]
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[color="cyan"]its great to hear about how other couples came in to swinging thanks guys for sharing.....[/color]
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Casanova
we saw louis whats his name on tv doin a program about swingin and then we realised that we had already done that, but didnt know it was called swingin lol and that other peeps did it so then we went a looking for some more dirty feckers lol
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Ray suggested what he would like to do with me (no witty coments there lol) then told me he would love to see me with another bloke and would also love a threesome with a female.
So far none of his dreams have come true lol, but even just thinking and talking about it is a turn on in itself
Forum Virgin
It was I, Chad who first said to lilly once whilst possibly too much under the influence of alcohol,'id love to see you fuck other people'. Much to my surprise she said 'really' as to which i replied yes and here we are almost a year in and banging til our balls (well mine) turn blue. We honestly cannot say it was the best thing we ever did but it certainly was a big turning point for us both in our 12 year marriage. xxx
