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babydevil
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 53
0 miles · Gloucestershire
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Casanova
mac23.. please dont feel disheartened by your struggle... its just a sad fact of life that there are far more single men on the site than any other group. Sure, there are a lot of people who dont meet single men- and thats their choice, its not to make you feel unwelcomee into the chatroom, start chatting and let people get to know you first. Read profiles before you do approach someone so at least you wont get a sharp rebuttal! Finally, as is the usual advice, read sudsy's "advice for newbies" in the new and nervous forum... hope you settle in ok x
Post edited 06-02-2007 10:02
Casanova
wozer.. what a rare breed of man you are - one that publicly apologises for any mistakes in the chatroom!! As everyone else has said, we were all new once and we've all made mistakes..some funny, some bad. But as long as you apologise then we're a pretty forgiving bunch!! :clap: 
Casanova
ok guys... most of you know the story... both myself and chip are due to go to kels bash - sadly because of babysitter probs it looks more likely that just 1 of us will be able to attend. Sooo.. since we cant decide, because we both know the other will be dissappointed, we are gonna open it to a fun poll... so in the words of big brother.. you decide!!!! ( please be gentle!!) :-?
Casanova
just to say welcome to the site.... hope you have as much fun as the rest of us!! Soooo agree with everything kel has just said... just come into the room and get to know people... anything your not sure of, just ask someone..and just relax!!! Frankie - sexually driven gemini?..didnt know I had a twin!! lol xxxxx
Casanova
aww kel.... its a pleasure to be a friend to guys like you and Ian (tho I've not had the pleasure of meeting your nice man yet!! lol)... you welcomed me when I was a newbie and always had a good chat.... anyway you still owe me a shopping trip woman!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Casanova
thanks puss and kel.... I've been on the end of some "asking" myself so know what its like - whether its to get my bits out or what time I'm doing a show on cam like its the west end or something!! I know we're paying members of an adult site but since when did that mean it entitles members to treat others like performing seals or pieces of meat??
Casanova
ok.. recently there has been a few run-ins with members complaining of not being allowed to 'direct cams'., pointing out that the people on cams are in full knowledge that others are watching them. - yes this is obviously the case. But what all members of this site should realise is that when people decide to do shows of any sort on cam, then they are merely inviting you to watch. What they get up to whilst on cam is for their pleasure first and foremost. If a member really feels a need to ASK someone on cam to do something different, then that is one reason whisper function is there..a member has to realise that not everybody wants to hear what they have to say. Mods (me included!!).. are in the room merely to enforce a rule that is already in place to protect all members.... we didnt make it guys and girls!! So please dont have a go at us!
Casanova
ok kel..only just got back so not sure whats gone on...but just on thing to say to you. Never apologise for sharing anything you are feeling in the chatroom....you are among friends and people who care about you, we all want to help and support each other where possible and its nice that you feel comfy enough with everyone that you can tell people how you feel. take care hunny xx
Casanova
firstly look at the profile and see exactly what that person is looking for in terms of a meet. Then when you start talking to them be nice, be respectful and dont be pushy. Most single females on this site can be wary of single males due to past problems, so be patient and dont get disheartened if they say no. just get to know people in the chat room first and start chatting generally, this will help people to get to know you. Hope this helps x
