there is nothing wrong with that, we all have what we have and many of us has little control over how it looks (that said my friend with the big one says he achieved 2" growth using a device he bought and has now bought a device to increase girth lol[/i][/size][/color][/b] 
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[quote="biggirluk"]so does that mean we should ask for a tiny cock if we want to give the opposite impression? :giggle:[/quote]
[b][color="violet"][size="13"][i]No never, it is all about personal perception and personal taste, some women love big cocks as much as some men love to shout about having one there is nothing wrong with that, we all have what we have and many of us has little control over how it looks (that said my friend with the big one says he achieved 2" growth using a device he bought and has now bought a device to increase girth lol[/i][/size][/color][/b]
there is nothing wrong with that, we all have what we have and many of us has little control over how it looks (that said my friend with the big one says he achieved 2" growth using a device he bought and has now bought a device to increase girth lol[/i][/size][/color][/b] 
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Scared may be over reaction, maybe, those other things do happen on a daily basis in the wonderfull world of sex, what I was really trying to say was, being a bit more explicit in what you are seeking and what you are will ing to do many bring better results,
Many profiles do point out the 3 no' no's of W/S, Scat and pain, but there are lot's of other things that will stop people from arrange a meet with someone else, many couples will not meet bi males or couples with bi-males even though they know the man will respect thier "straight" status in the same way that some people don't like piercings or heavy tattooing, it does no harm to be explicit in your profile and does help to eliminate some of the time wasting that is inevitable in swinging.[/b][/i][/color]
[color="darkred"][i]Human penis size is the measured length and width of the human penis. The most accurate measurement of the human penis comes from several measurements at different times, as there is natural variability in size due to arousal level, time of day, room temperature, frequency of sexual activity, and unreliability of the measurement methods. When compared to other primates, including large primates such as the gorilla, the genitalia of male humans are large, both in absolute terms and in relative size to the rest of the body. Results vary, with studies that rely on self-measurement reporting a significantly higher average than those with staff measuring, but a mean erect human penis is approximately 0 cm ( 9 in) in length. Flaccid penis length is a poor estimate of erect length. Most of human penis growth happens between infancy and the age of five, and in five years after the onset of puberty.
There is evidence both for and against a link between penis size and the size of other body parts. Some environmental factors in addition to genetic, such as the presence of endocrine disruptors, can affect penis growth. An adult penis with an erect length of less than 7 cm or just over 2 inches but otherwise formed normally is referred to in a medical context as having the micropenis condition. Circumcised men are on average 8 millimeters shorter in terms of erect length compared to their intact counterparts.[1][/i][/color]
[b][color="darkblue"]So the average is 5.1 to 5.9 inches, most men do NOT add 2" to thier size to impress, they do it because they believe it, the common error being where they do the measurements, there is little point measuring from underneath the penis since you cannot insert that anywhere your stomach area above your penis stops you, it should be measured from above the penis (the usable bit)
So 2-3 inches = small, 3-5 inches = medium, 5-6 inches = absolutely average, 6-8 inches = above average, 8-10 inches = VWE, over 10 inches = registered lethal weapon.
The question many men should be asking is ..... what do women prefer ? what is the best size to have ?
Most women will say they prefer girth to length, (assuming your not in the small category)
Personally I prefer to be as I am, which is ..... absolutely average, I have a friend who is VWE and he has often been declined in swinging situations because he is considered too big, I on the other hand have never been turned down for it being too big but have never had any complaints about it being too small either.
Personally (and honestly) I am put off by profiles that ask for VWE or VVWE men, I may be wrong but the thought "bucket fanny" comes into my mind and I like a nice small tight pussy 