new and nervous

10 Jul 2005

we have never had any experience with swinging before and i(f) am very unsure whether this is really for me please help i fear how i will look at myself and hubby after. has anyone else had same feeling before taking the plunge and how can i test out if this is for me i do get turned one by the whole swinging thing but am afraid it is just a fantacy and not real would love to hear about first time experience and how you felt the next day was it all you thought it would be or more

27 Jul 2005

Hi, the best advice I can give is just keep talking it through with each other. I wasn't sure at first and my wife and I went at different paces! Now I have caught up and we both love it! But it took some time! Good luck thou, hope you find what you are looking for.