we are a white couple looking for the same. male is straight female is slightly bi-curious but has never had any experience with other females. this is something we both have fantacies about when we feel dirty but i am still(f) not sure if i could go through it we both love the idea of swinging and have a good loving relationship we watch dirty films together which turn us both on and would love to experience the intesity and excitment of what the couples are doing but i (f) still feel afraid of how i will feel about it after