i have been a member with this site for a while but been very shy of late so decided to start using this again have had some good chats on the chat room and would like to meet up with people one day.
i am a single bi male who is up for almost anything.
would be nice to make some good friends on here like all the people on the chatroom say they have.
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i am new and nervous.
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Forum Virgin
[size="18"][i][b][color="darkred"]The first thing is to take things slowly, it is not a race, do what your doing, get to know people, in the forums and in the chatrooms, get a feel for the people you would like to meet.
When you think your ready try going to a social, think about it, it's just a social event, you don't take your clothes off, you don't
have sex with anyone, just a group of like minded people having a drink together.
Think long and hard (no pun intended) about what you want, saying your "up for almost anything" can actually scare people away, we personally avoid those that are "up for anything" we don't want to meet people who are into scat, watersports, extreme torture, illegal sexual practices, (ya get the idea ..... anything in sex is a pretty wide variation)
Make your profile interesting and informative, your profile is your shop window, if you want people to buy what is on offer you have to make the window appealing, the easiest way to do that is to put yourself in the place of those you would like to meet, be it single men, single females or couples, think what you would like to know about a person from thier profile before you would consider meeting them.[/color][/b][/i][/size]
Warming the Bed
I think when people say they are "up for anything", they're saying that they are happy to go with the flow.. Nothing to be scared of Jed 
Forum Virgin
[color="darkblue"][i][b][quote="beanflickr"]I think when people say they are "up for anything", they're saying that they are happy to go with the flow.. Nothing to be scared of Jed [/quote]
Scared may be over reaction, maybe, those other things do happen on a daily basis in the wonderfull world of sex, what I was really trying to say was, being a bit more explicit in what you are seeking and what you are will ing to do many bring better results,
Many profiles do point out the 3 no' no's of W/S, Scat and pain, but there are lot's of other things that will stop people from arrange a meet with someone else, many couples will not meet bi males or couples with bi-males even though they know the man will respect thier "straight" status in the same way that some people don't like piercings or heavy tattooing, it does no harm to be explicit in your profile and does help to eliminate some of the time wasting that is inevitable in swinging.[/b][/i][/color]
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Scared may be over reaction, maybe, those other things do happen on a daily basis in the wonderfull world of sex, what I was really trying to say was, being a bit more explicit in what you are seeking and what you are will ing to do many bring better results,
Many profiles do point out the 3 no' no's of W/S, Scat and pain, but there are lot's of other things that will stop people from arrange a meet with someone else, many couples will not meet bi males or couples with bi-males even though they know the man will respect thier "straight" status in the same way that some people don't like piercings or heavy tattooing, it does no harm to be explicit in your profile and does help to eliminate some of the time wasting that is inevitable in swinging.[/b][/i][/color] 