know its not really about a meet, but whats happening with the forum,
popped on to have a little look see what the world is doing on sp, and there is nothing new
now its either, my little laptop is not keeping up to speed, or no one wants to meet and chat anymore .......
even when someone pops a little note on, doesn't seem anyone replies or they pm them,
any thoughts
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saskia03
Over 90 days ago
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[b]just to light the social up again [/b]
its this weekend so all those that have got their invites hope you've booked your hotel room ........ and got your glad rags ready for a night of enjoyment
those that don't know ..... social 26th april ..... its all in the party section in the menu/forum so should be a good night to meet and get to know each other for the newbies
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well I thought the debate may have been closed but still getting some hits .... so ..... lets open it up again and see if there are any others with views on the subject
personally I prefer to have a social ,,,, see if the peeps I chat too actually are one and the same .... have a drink and dance and then .... see how the night goes 
if the night goes well and all is good then prob keep meeting up with that person ....
so do other peeps have different ways /views ......
if the night goes well and all is good then prob keep meeting up with that person ....
so do other peeps have different ways /views ...... this is brill ...... so many views and a social in the offing .... so it does work make something interesting and peeps look at it ........ so......... the ball is now in the court for the social and please .... instead of just saying 'yep interested' when the time comes go ..... dazlisa ..... up to you also to find the magic venue where everyone can mingle and chat ........ and also dance :-)
well .... no more replies or tag ons so the debate has closed .......
still peeps interested tho and that's good but seriously .... takes peeps to make something work .... so weather, money, and the right venue ...... get those bodies moving :bounce: :beer: 
:beer: seems that the debate is still going on ....... 200 plus viewings, and 20 plus replies which is good at least peeps are reading and making a comment about socials/meetings ..... still seems that the 'long term' peeps have a view on the subject ... but its the newer people that need to say 'yep, interested,' ......it really isn't just a 'free perv' site
daz and lisa are trying to motivate this site .... and good for them, seems they and kayde are the only mods who seem to be around now, and they are putting time and effort to get peeps movtivated and turn up for a social ..... so get those fingers working and go ...... open mind .... not too drunk .... and enjoy chatting and probably more 
brookes
it does make you wonder what happened to all those people that used to go ... spend Friday night / Saturday night just chatting and making new friends, was a good way to meet people that you would probably talk to on here and there has been many a long term friendship made , I know I have made some really good friends on here
like I said on the second post who would be up for it ..... and just two people said yes ..... and how many have read these blogs .... time effort and a lot of phoning goes into making these socials happen .... and when just two or three people turn up out of maybe 60 that say yes ......... its heartbreaking .....
Logan .... there used to be MK ...... in mid summer ..... Stevenage at New Year ......Leeds after MK and then a few others scattered around one down south at a nudist beach and 5 turned up ..........
brookes
if you read the first or second blog I did say about costs, and its not just about socials its about meets in general , yep time of year counts, yep flooding/travelling logistics count, but im also on about a couple of years ago also and as other 'long timers' that can remember peeps have organized various events around the country and either lack of interest has caused them to be cancelled or just 2 couples turned up .
well its been well read 66 peeps have looked at the post, 3 replies, which proves my theory that peeps just aren't interested in meeting just enjoy the 'free perv' and booty/titty cam
it really is a shame that peeps rant and moan about the state of the site, when there are peeps willing to arrange meetings, socials, and no one turns up
oh well ..... back to the dream state of 'grand olde days' when it used to be fun :color:
so why don't people want to meet up / use the social to make their swinging life more interesting ?
maybe the reason could be that a majority use the sight to sit at home and just free perv ........ or its too expensive for that w.e. away
I sound like an old person now remembering 'how it used to be' and shouldn't do that really .... but example 'single female, just joined no idea who anyone was/ how to react' but the first social in MK I went too was the best night I met so many people , couples, males, females, and there was no pressure at all , it was just nice to meet and chat
so come on SP peeps , put that extra effort in and start meeting , it takes people to make a site work, and get something back
MK was the hot spot once a year and its also nearly central for everyone to get too ..... any takers ?:happy:
have been a member here for sometime and have noticed a few things, mainly the ups and downs, lack of enthusiasm, lack of talkers in the chat rooms ........
one thing is making me wonder tho ..... why when people ask to meet up there is a lack of answers
and also why are there no socials anymore ..... they were a good meeting point, no pressure, and a brill way to meet all the people that used to chat in here 
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