excellent advice suddsy!
may we add some tips for newbies?
Although new to this site we've been on the scene for just under 2yrs. The best advice we have is be honest, not only with others but yourselves. Dont tell people you're game for anything if you're not. Rather than putting off others, many like the idea of 'swinging virgins' and are very enthusiastic to take newbies under their experienced wing and show them the ropes (no pun intended) When we were new, nervous, shy & unsure of what we really wanted we found everyone really friendly, polite and eager to make us feel relaxed, after all it does no-one any favours to scare off the new meat!!!
thanks everyone for listening :moon: