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pacha
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
Bisexual Female, 43
0 miles · Greater Manchester
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my personal advice is, don't start with: ' hmm how best to start this??' it doesn't make you seem confident. if you're shy, then fine, but say that you are and be honest. You say: '..I dont sub (maybe to the right person)..' which may confuse some people. just say what you like/want and i'm sure you will have success.
if you need any help on anything, just inbox us..
good luck!
laura
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[quote user=truescorpio][quote user=pacha][quote user=truescorpio][quote user=morkandmindy][quote user=truescorpio] Wth regards to my 'attitude', it is apparent that you find a man who asserts himself to be threatening? I suppose we'd have more success if we sat quietly up a corner yes?[/quote]
[color="darkred"]Actually I find confidence and assertiveness in a man really attractive.
Arrogance on the other hand is a massive turn off.[/color][/quote]
Cant you just put your responses in one post? Cant keep up with you 
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha[/quote]
Aww, so glad I could put a smile on your face mr pacha, after all, if I'd been here over a year and hadnt had a single meet I'd be in need of a laugh too! :wank:[/quote]
excuse me...?
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha[/quote]
Aww, so glad I could put a smile on your face mr pacha, after all, if I'd been here over a year and hadnt had a single meet I'd be in need of a laugh too! :wank:[/quote]
excuse me...? [quote user=truescorpio][quote user=morkandmindy][quote user=truescorpio] Wth regards to my 'attitude', it is apparent that you find a man who asserts himself to be threatening? I suppose we'd have more success if we sat quietly up a corner yes?[/quote]
[color="darkred"]Actually I find confidence and assertiveness in a man really attractive.
Arrogance on the other hand is a massive turn off.[/color][/quote]
Cant you just put your responses in one post? Cant keep up with you
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha
Arrogance: 'I am better than everyone else'
Confidence: 'I am as good as everyone else' (which is the basis of my entire arguement)[/quote]
i can guarantee i'm 100 times more confident than you pal, but i would never act like this. congratulations at alienating yourself from most of the site...
i lol'd
mr pacha [quote user=ceylon1][quote user=pacha]
oh, and can someone explain to me what a 'proffessional' job is? is that the opposite of an un-professional one...?:haha:[/quote]
I said PROFESSION pacha there's no comparison between what people perceive as a professional job or not is there.
I think the point that people are trying to make is that should pictures and profile be seen by work colleagues or friends and family it could become highly embarrassing for them.
Mr C[/quote]what made u think i was quoting you? i was making the point about people who dont put pics up because they have a 'professional' job...it means nothing, they are just trying to attach importance to themselves. and its normally the overweight not so good looking ones who use this excuse to get away from putting pics on their profile...
anyway, i dont care about what people think,
anyway, i dont worry about what people think, if they dont like it then tough. its probably because they arent swinging....
sorry, but i stick by what i said. HOW CAN U GET IN TROUBLE? even if ur a teacher or whatever, its not against the law to have sex. ive never heard of anyone getting in trouble for having a profile on a swingers site...
i think most of u talk urself into believing everyone in ur street is going to point and laugh when u walk out the house. if ur friends laugh then so what, theyre ur friends, and if someone u dont know was to laugh then so what also?
i think you are all get worked up about nothing..
'hey pacha, i was looking at sex sites and saw ur profile, ur well out of order...'
lol
i'm not really sure what the fuss is. first of all who is going to search ur user name or first name in google? and so what if they see ur on a swinging site? what could happen? u cant get sacked and if ur worried about ur young kids seeing u then u should have the proper security to stop them looking at sex sites...
CHILL OUT PLEASE!
oh, and can someone explain to me what a 'proffessional' job is? is that the opposite of an un-professional one...?:haha:
