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oliviak
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 47
0 miles · Greater London
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Well I am hoping this thread can be the end of it. I don't think replies are even necessary and hope people just read it, think about it, take it on board and move on.
People stay, like me, in the hope that things pick up on the site. Especially long-standing members who remember how great this site used to be. Lets hope that it picks back up again and this lull is just part of a cycle.
Things can only get better. (who sung that song?)
Oli xx
.... do you think the dwindling numbers on the site could have something to do with all the moaning going on in the forums? I'm not saying it's the only factor, but common sense should tell us that if any prospective new members popped in to have a look around to see what the site is like and saw all the rubbish in the forums, that they might just immediately close their browser after reading the forums? I know I would. But that's just me.
Maybe if you have any technical problems, with the chatroom for example, raise them in the appropriate way by raising a support ticket.
Maybe keep all the infighting out of the forums and keep it private among the parties involved rather than having a public spat like a school child.
Maybe keep all your moaning to yourselves and if you do feel the need to raise any issues about the site, do it in the appropriate way by contacting admin directly with your concerns.
Maybe if you have a problem with any particular member, keep it amongst yourselves and sort it out amongst yourselves without getting everyone else needlessly involved.
Maybe all the negativity that has taken over the forums lately is actually contributing to the drop in membership on the site.
Maybe the reason this year's MK social doesn't have as long an attendance list as it has done in previous years is because of all the negativity in the thread about the social.
Maybe we have all been contributing to our own downfall.
Maybe we should all just give it a rest.
Maybe this site is about having fun and chatting to and meeting with like-minded people. I could be wrong.
Maybe life could be a bit more fun if we all stopped taking it so seriously.
Maybe I need a shag.
Just maybe.
Maybe I should shut up now and just drink my beer.
Bloody hell what's been going on in this place? I hardly ever come in here any more after rejoining. I have no idea what this is all about and to be honest I'm not really interested.
But I will say this. When I do come on here all I see is people whinging and moaning about this, that and the other including about the fact that there doesn't seem to be many people around anymore in the chatroom etc. I wonder bloody why!? If I was a potential new member of this site and came in the forums to have a look round no bloody way would I join after seeing all you lot bitching and moaning and complaining about the site.
Yes I believe in freedom of speech (which does have legal limitations by the way so isn't totally 'free' as such) but to be honest you are actually all contributing to the downfall of the site with the constant moaning in the public forums. No wonder people are leaving in droves and membership is down. Who would join after reading all this bollocks?
I think everyone needs to grow up and chill out. This site is meant to be fun!
God I need a shag.
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Now that I've seen this list, :bounce:I'm on the phone to try to change my plans for that weekend! lol :bounce:[/quote]
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