This exciting and interesting scene has always been something I thought I would enjoy being a part of some day and not just for the obvious reasons. Nothing would give me greater pleasure than to be able to share this experience with a beautiful and intelligent partner who would help me to offer more than yet another spare p***k However, it seems that I am destined to remain forever single. Should I give up trying to make friends here amongst my fellow weirdoes? I think not.!! Naturally as a single male I have the least to offer this amazing scene but I scrub up well, I know which fork to use, I come accompanied by a big bottle of champagne and would like to make a few friends who might be able to offer advice on the best way forward for single males. Not after anything Hardcore and don't think for a minute that it's gonna be a doddle but a bit of friendly adult conversation be just fine and dandy. Best wishes to you all anyway and thanks for reading my nonsense ** For the Anoraks amongst you: Lyman Abbott (1835-1922) was American Protestantism's foremost interpreter of the scientific, theological, and social revolutions challenging the nation after the Civil War.