Straight male with a good soh. blond hair, blue/green eyes, slightly overweight, well educated, IT consultant. Safe/ clean/discrete/genuine. Likes: Friends, confidence (but not pushy people), GSOH & open minds. The good things in life like good wine & food, curry, real ale. Dislikes: rude & loud people & time wasters, chav's and larger louts and corn-beef. Ultimately GOOD Sex, and or full on relationship with a single soulmate (not into damaging partnerships), but otherwise just fun with intelligent fun sexy people. Friends first, much more later! (although I could do the stranger thing also, if that’s your fantasy ?) Open minds and a friendly honest attitude are a must. Complete discretion assured and expected. All boundaries respected. No pressure, no hassles - just get to know me. You might like what you see. sorry on pic at the mo (bad hair day :¬))) I have my own snorkle and flippers.