We are building a swinger network for people who are of our age and still active. In 8 months, we have been contacted by over 120 couples, have confirmed 40: & we know that 12 are definitely serious swingers because we have played lots of lovely games with them! Mike is straight, Bada is bi curious, nervous, but very keen. We swing together, never apart. We go to local clubs Hamshaw, Skinnys and Eureka, & could meet you there. The Lamb Inn at the Bexhill end of Pevensey marshes is a nice place for an inexpensive, high quality & quiet meal, while we all decide whether we fancy each other enough to want to meet again. If you live north of Hastings, we like the food at the Chequers, Lamberhurst. We know good restaurants to the east but none are inexpensive. Mike has had many relationships with bi ladies, including marriage with 5 kids (they are still young, he says it proves his equipment still works!) (it does not, he has had the snip but it still fires a lot of lubricating fluid!). He likes female bisexuality very much. We are clean & safe: unless we know & trust the sexual history of our friends, we practice safe sex for theirs & our protection. Although Mike is very experienced, much of that has been gently helping beginners to achieve their erotic fantasies through his very successful branch of Forum magazine’s society in Winchester in the 1970s. Although we are serious swingers we sometimes meet very nervous beginners, then it is foreplay only with the other couple, and completion with own partners. We are also part time naturists, and like visiting spas: though our main club Hamshaw is now part naturist, part textile and some fetish. We are into anything that gives gentle pleasure to our friends, but not the following: fetish, pain, humiliation, water sports, time wasters and picture collectors. Also Mike is tolerant of bisexual men, but does not want to be touched by them. Pictures: we are not collectors and our only photos are on our profile page. We don’t have the time for endless fantasy emails, being more into meeting and touching real people. We are on instant messenger, and have a webcam. Also MadDutch3 on MSN. We insist on phone or webcam contact before meeting: It is nice to see the faces (and sometimes other parts!) of our friends: it also confirms that the 30 year old athletic couple we plan to meet, is not in reality a 60 year old, bedridden 25 stone single man! Before meeting, we always exchange both landline and mobile numbers and have our women chat on the phone. Mobiles are needed because someone usually gets lost in the dark with a flat tyre, or goes to the wrong pub. Since swinging is a “strictly by consent scene,” we promise you there is never any pressure or upset if any of us do not want to play: but we can still be friends if that is what you prefer. We have known many swingers who are not sex partners because the chemistry is not there: we are happy to have their friendship only. If you'd like to take this further, please email us. Mike & Bada, MadDutch.