Looking for a casual take away partner

Not looking to rush into any meets and would like a social meet first. Do have one or two kinks/fetishes that may not be to everyone's taste! Well all have them but some just won't admit to them!

Ideally looking for one or two regular now and again partners for possible evenings away now and again

Not just looking for quickie fucks as like my fore and after sex play to much... and much prefer relaxed meets. Also looking for first experience with a couple, would prefer a gentle introduction possible involving just foreplay type play first or maybe just oral. Open to suggestions.