We would like to have the experience of something erotic and new. If we never make the first move, we'll never find out if there is something more. Perhaps it's all in the mind. Help us find out. We are beginners and therefore might be too vanilla for some. We are both very attractive and find each other the most ravishing and perfect partner in the world; we are totally in love. We are looking to enhance what we already have between us and that could be too selfish for some, too. Apologies in advance.