At the end of the day it's 'sensuous' that drives all: I have been into lingerie and heels since I was about 14, but it's about the sexy feel and the conjouring of feminine sexuality, rather than about my sexual orientation. Over the years I have gone from almost homophobically straight to being utterly bi - sometimes getting really strong cravings for male contact. A number of experiences have brought me excitement and fulfillment that I shall remember on my death bed. Breaking those Lutheran taboos showed me that life is indeed worth living! Now, sex is to be explored at all levels and in all ways. I'm still exploring. Julia/Jules