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jelandn
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 67
Straight Male, 67
0 miles · Gloucestershire
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Hiyas Mo, possibly us doing the confusing!!
To set record straight, its Jel's birthday this weekend on 17th (and we are away in the london apartment) and N on 23rd when we are with the loony swingers at MK.
We are both anticipating a combined birthday 'snogathon' with playmates, both old & new...lol
See you soon
Jel & N
xxx
Mo
God knows, so many dont actually meet up for anything at all (and we are happy to just chat, if that suits people).
But since we started we have met some nice genuine peeps, including you guys and we liked it, whatever the outcome...
Its all an experience!!
Take care, we wont say 'have fun' cause we know you 2 always do...
Jel & N
xxx
Hi.
We shall be in central London 15-17th September to celebrate Jel's birthday, staying in Thameside apartment.
If after reading our profile any nice couples or single ladies fancy a drink/chat (and maybe more) on any of those days or nights please drop us a message, we always reply.
Take care, have fun...
Jel & N
xxx
Well for what its worth we use 2 different terms ie. Social meet and play meet.
Social would normally be intial 1:1 contact or when other people are still nervous and unsure whether this is for them. Primarily to sit down, have a drink, chat and gentle (or outrageous) flirt session, either on neutral territory or within someone's home ie. MK meet on 23rd is a social in essence (but if people wish to carry any flirting further that would have to be mutually agreed.)
A Playmeet would be to get more intimate in private, but dependent upon any boundaries agreed and set beforehand. ie. lots dont swop and fuck on first play, prefer to engage in horny foreplay and revert to own partner for 'completion'.
Hope this makes some sense? It seems to work ok for us 2.
Take care, have fun...
Jel & N
xxx
Yep we visited 101 in August.
Defo not best we have been to...
Quite cramped and not spacious, plunge pool in cellar with cramped changing area, music blaring out far too loud in cellar drowned out any conversation...Clearly a very local crowd in on night we went...plus, who the heck listens to 'classic' northern soul these days??
We much prefer Utopia, Chameleons and Liberty Elite in Midlands, people seem, to travel from scotland and south coast to those, much more diverse clientele...
These are purely personal observations...
Jel & N
xxx
Dude
If we recall, you were in chat over weekend having discussions with other single guys on ways to improve your standing within this community, to make yourselves more attractive to couples and single ladies...
The positive outcome of which was the the posting by Sudsy which fankly speaks volumes about why some guys make it and others disappear into a sexual wilderness...(and solo wanking frenzy)
Dont fret too much about any sarcasm...We get some too, but heyho thats life I guess...
Perhaps the userid does not help when you are trying to impress and attract??
Take care, have fun
Jel & N
xxx
Brilliant info Sudsy and Curvy!!
As SP regulars we are not above making classic chat errors:-
Whispers in error, easily corrected by a quickly whispered 'whoops' or 'sorry'
Forgetting the emoticons at end of teasing, which can be more effort to correct if recipient is sensitive to tease (which we as humans, can tend to be at one time or another). However we are unafraid to apologise openly, if we cause any offence, however occasioned...
We do endeavour to chat with all that seek a response, but can get carried away with our friends in chat and miss any others...
Take care, have fun
Jel & N
xxx
Hi Mikem...
Let us give you a couples perspective, after all it is easier for us, isn't it??...lol
We recently messaged 96 couples that appeared to fit our 'requirement'...
13 replied, we have met 7 of them. Of those, 2 are couples that we are comfy with and played with since...
In essence you dont appear to be doing anything wrong, but perhaps need a bit some patience and an element of luck...xx
Take care, have fun
Jel & N
xxx
Hi
It took us 4 months to summon up the courage for our first meet and we had the advantage of being a couple.
It appears you joined in July, this scene requires an element of patience and good luck to succeed and perhaps its far to early to be having a 'woe is me' moment...
Take care, have fun, we do...
Jel & N
xx
