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fordy269
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
Bisexual Female, 51
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Sexlightened
I doubt anyone will be doing any of that sam...
Have you seen your profile....
I know I wouldn't get in touch with you AND give you my email addy just to see a pic..
I think you expecting too much! on this site & others, there are MANY single guys to choose from for those that are looking for one.
Here we have some really genuine, funny guys, who show respect at all times... swinging_cat, fun4u2me2, tribblemaster & ur4it are to name just a few...
A profile like yours with no pics is going to get you nowhere.... take a leaf out of the above mentioned guys & you wont go far wrong.... 
Sexlightened
Hi footy....
I'm taking deep breathes & counting to ten before I reply to this thread!! excuse me a momoent..lol
right..all calm! lol
I understand that you new, & well done for getting the pics on your profile!
ok, so I can see what you look like for a change but... Do I know anything about you? do you have a sense of humour? are you weird, wacky? etc,etc...
Did you just not know what to write in your profile bit? or do you only have one brain cell? can it only think of one thing at a time? I understand that men think of sex for around 85% of the time...the other 15% they are doing it, if they are lucky..lol
Do you think that if you wrote something witty, clever & funny people might actually want to get in contact with you?
can you not spell? (like me!)
arr see the answer to your question is in there some where!!!! lol..
Anyway, welcome.. make some changes to your profile & I'll bet you'll be having loads of fun...
Sexlightened
Yeah, I (mrs) have to agree with swinging...
ONE cock shot is enough... your profile reads ok & if you had some pics of the rest of you on there too, I would have said it was a great profile....
I personally wouldnt look twice at a profile that had only cock shots on it... let alone send a mail to them....
Sexlightened
god, I hope you didn't take what I said about your pics the wrong way will... they are far better than some I've seen on here....
I just meant that out of the three that were on your profile the only one I would have looked at bigger would have been the b&w... its really flattering & makes you look damn fine lol
anyways said all I wanted to say...
Sexlightened
Hiya will,
I (mrs) just took at look at your profile & all in all it's pretty good... The b&w pic of you really did it for me, the other two not really fussed...
When reading your profile I nearly stopped at one particular line (but I made myself read on) & may I just suggest you perhaps remove the 'have cock, will travel' bit..Ifound it a bit ott.
Other than that...really good profile/pics & post!!
hope you have many more meets through here & have loads of fun... :devil:
Post edited 08-11-2005 18:56
Sexlightened
yeah we have had to add him to our ignore list too after the idiot sent us a mail last night also kinkynuns... its a shame that people like this do make us a cynical lot & make us give the relly nice guys a hard time til they prove otherwise..we know who you are.... I've (mrs.f) always been the type of person that gives people the benefit of the doubt but on here you have to be far more cautious, which is a real shame..& not like me at all..
Sexlightened
Right before I start...sorry to all you lovely guys I just put into the title..this is definately not aimed at you....
I (mrs.F) love these forums..So much that mr.F is becoming a forum widow..lol.. Now I read them every day, twice a day sometimes (god I should get a life..pmsl) & I get incensed at the amount of single men that post here expecting us women to just fall into their laps....
These paticular single men generally dont have pics or a decent profile & posting 'anyone want a fcuk' or 'does nobody actually meet thro this site...wanna fcuk' is not going to make me want to drop my knickers & go running to them!! really!
When nobody replies to these post THEY get p***ed of and moan about the lack of action they are getting...any wonder??? HELLO....
Just to let you know..IF you took the time to write a decent profile..put on some pics, these do not have to be face pics, & took the time to write a post that actually looked like you have a personality or more than 2 brain cells..you MIGHT actually get people talking to you (altho this STILL doesnt mean we are going to drop our knickers just because we say hello!!!).........
*rant over.. aarr I feel better now..lol*
Sexlightened
Things do start off slowly & quietly for new members til you get into the 'swing' of things..lol give it time, be polite & we are sure you'll be making contact with some lucky person/people eventually.. your porfile is looking better now (moans removed..lol)& you have a decent pic on so your half way there already...Hi btw...
Sexlightened
We have just been reading your posts..all of 'em crap! Nobody wants to talk to somebody who has nothing to say... Yes we do talk to each other & yes we are here to have a bit of fun BUT we are not going to reply to a post (except this one) where all you have to say is 'anyone want a fcuk' in varying ways.....get a life!!!!
Sexlightened
Have you seen your profile M8??? Any wonder your not having much luck!! Sort it out... add something about you & your p e r s o n a l i t y (sorry to write it like that but it keeps getting from that I'd say you havent got one (sorry to be harsh) get some pics on it & then maybe..& I did say maybe you might actully have some luck in finding your match.... I (mrs.F) am amazed by the amount of single guys that think all women on here are an easy lay...get real... :wank:
Post edited 29-10-2005 8:58
Post edited 29-10-2005 9:00
Sexlightened
OMG... We had better remove our blowjob pic then cos we dont want anyone getting the wrong impression..lol
As for the rest of it..we also have a fantastic sex life, believe it or not... but being bi myself & with a great partner... we like to have a little fun with other women from time to time..its not the be all & end all..just a adds little extra spice now & then to an already great relaionship.. 
Personally, I dont think swinging would work in a relationship that wasn't 100% anyway.. we no longer go into the chatroom as much as we used to & try to avoid busier times too because of the small majority of men who just wont take no for an answer, which is a real shame as it is a great part of the swinger-personals community...
ok thats just our opinion.... :P
Personally, I dont think swinging would work in a relationship that wasn't 100% anyway.. we no longer go into the chatroom as much as we used to & try to avoid busier times too because of the small majority of men who just wont take no for an answer, which is a real shame as it is a great part of the swinger-personals community...
ok thats just our opinion.... :P Sexlightened
:clap: :clap: :clap: Well said angel_chat..
We have to agree with you, after looking at what little profile is there we would definately not consider even replying to it. If you cant be bothered to put a bit of effort in then why should anyone else.. pics on a profile would be a good start & these dont even have to be face pics...
Sexlightened
[quote user=swingin_cat' But don't let it put you off....that's what the swinging scene is all about. For every few blown-out meets, there's always at least one or two that go to plan.
we have to agree with you swinging, If we had let it put us off we wouldn't be having all the fun we are now... when we first started we had alot of failed meets but we think that as you gain experience you can usually spot the genuine people from the fakers.... :clap:
Post edited 29-09-2005 19:32
Post edited 29-09-2005 19:33
Sexlightened
Hi to you guys too...
I see your searching for the elusive creature...the single bi fem.... Join the queue! lol.
There are some lovely people on this site, I'm sure you will meet some of them eventually..
Your already doing the right thing to get yourselves noticed.. posting on the forum, try the chatroom next...
Post edited 19-09-2005 15:20
I see your searching for the elusive creature...the single bi fem.... Join the queue! lol.
There are some lovely people on this site, I'm sure you will meet some of them eventually..
Your already doing the right thing to get yourselves noticed.. posting on the forum, try the chatroom next...
Post edited 19-09-2005 15:20 