My partner and i had our first mmf thing this weekend after much talk and disscussion. we both wanted it and made rules etc first. however i got into it and kissed the other guy, which wasn't against the rules. my partner stoppped me but is now not pleased about it and keeps bringing it up. do other guys get hung up on this issue too? i now feel like i'm justifying my actions when it was all just in the swing of things. is there anything i can say to him to make him see its all just the same as any other act i may do with someone else with him there?