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fifecouple2
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
Bisexual Female, 52
0 miles · Fife
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thanks jelandn! its been a while! and it does feel like coming home! lol
we might not be in the chat as much as we used to be but we both hope we can bring something back to the site!
if anyone remembers us please get in touch! our memories aren't wot they used to be! the vodka and gin must be taking its toll finally! lol
hope to hear from lots of peeps new and old! lol
we used to be regulars on this site a couple of years back but left to try others! now our account has been upgraded just thought we'd say hi and hope to catch up with a few old friends and hopefully make some new ones!! we will be changing our name soon though coz we are no longer in fife. living in aberdeen just now but that could all be changing again soon! lol
everyone seems to be taking about admin not giving answers to why kel and devs have been booted. i'm a bit more concerned about the bullying and members ganging up on others they don't want around any more.
while i do agree with some of the comments above i also disagree with some too! yes we did sign up in accordance with the rules, but we also pay for a service and have the right as customers to complain if we feel the service has let us down! and right now lots of people are feeling let down!
the site doesn't seem like a very friendly place to be any more which is why caz and i only usually come into the chat later at night when all the arguing and backstabbing has ended.
not that we will be worrying about it much more though! we're going on holiday on tuesday (3rd July) and before we go i will be cancelling both memberships. might resign when we get back but i'll be talking to other members on nsm first to see if things have been improved!
if we don't get a chance to speak to some of you again then happy swinging and have a good life! and to a select few! keep in touch! you know who you are!!
steve & caz
there may well be 238,786 registered users but having checked there are actually only 29,707 premium ( paid ) members! surely you could handle that ur4it!! 
should really be 29,709 but that looks less likely every day!! :fury: never mind! i'm sure we'll meet them again! whether on here or not! :devil: only 5 days left!!!
steve
should really be 29,709 but that looks less likely every day!! :fury: never mind! i'm sure we'll meet them again! whether on here or not! :devil: only 5 days left!!!
steve plays no disrespect or anything but something CAN be done about the members who have been banned. they could both be reinstated and left to sort things out amongst themselves like the adults they are! they never argued in the chatroom, they never upset anyone in the chatroom so why should they not be allowed back in? you say the chatroom needs to get back to the way it was! i would love to see the site back to the way it was nearly 4 years ago,( when everything was friendly and the only problem was single blokes whispering lol ) but it ain't going to happen. with all the bitchyness and bullying all i can see is the site going one way! it is getting more and more common to see posts left regarding not renewing memberships! well here's another! we go on holiday on the 3rd of july and will be cancelling both subscriptions before we go! whether it is permanently cancelled or just till we get home will depend on how the site goes in the next month!
steve
thats all fine in theory fluffy but when we feel that a good friend has been treated unfairly and was quite blatantly bullied i feel the need to speak up on her behalf since she isn't here to defend herself. i'm not saying i know all the ins and out of her being banned but i do know more than most. i have also seen some of the discussions that have gone on outside the site to know that kelly and possibly devs were treated unfairly. :wank: as qanda suggested maybe there should be an appeals procedure where admin can find out all that has happened.
also to hear that someone has slagged off plays in the chill out zone??? how cowardly could you be? i have left this thread so people can give their oppinion and tell me i'm talkin shit if thats wot they feel! to slag peeps off while hiding in part of the site that ain't often used is just cowardice!
right i'm gonna get off me soap box now!
but it would be nice to hear admins reaction to all that has been said here!
steve
plays why are you so keen to have this thread deleted? if admin have decided not to pull it they must have their reasons! hopefully they are considering some of the points that i have made. you are not the only people who have had threads deleted. i have had several deleted when making valid if maybe forcefull points. seems from some of the coments made above that i'm not the only one peeved off with the currnet situation and would like something resolved before i have to cancel my subscriptions.
then again i may be forced to leave first! we'll see!
steve
spoke to kelly today and she would like to point out that her and devs fell out in feb and have been quite happily ignoring each other since. kelly would also like to point out that she had nothing to do with devs getting banned from the site, despite popular belief, and the witch hunt which followed has left her very hurt. she has since joined another site and although it isn't as good as this one she is getting on with life. kelly would also like to thank the peeps who stuck by her at this time. you know who you are!!
steve
thought i should post a reply in this link since it is closely linked to the last link i replied to which was deleted for some reason. probably because there were too many home truths involved!
after much deliberation we have decided that we are not going to renew ourr subscription after all. if the forum is there for rants and greivences then why delete a post which is obviously true and which was started by a mod! in the post i stated that we had an over zelous mod in the room who boots people for the slightest thing! and last night took the biscuit! when a man calls his own wife a bitch in jest when she was sitting beside him surely this doesn't deserve being booted? the last link was headlined mini hitlers and i hope i don't cause offence to anyone but i'm afraid thats the way things seem to be heading!
happy swinging peeps!
we've only got 2 weeks left!
steve
i know wot u mean ali babe cos im finding it hard just now to come into the room or else im the 1 that might get banned cos of all the aggro at the mo!!!!and the worst of all im losing out on potential meets here!!! if they want to talk personal it should be done on not on a swinging site that is friendly and all good is gonna come out of it if we all keep the peace :mad:
we tend not to care about hiding our face pics in a private gallery! if someone on the site knows us ( and its happened to us once before ) then they are on the site for the same reason as you! the couple that knew us got a bit nervous but we soon coaxed them out of their shyness ( and their clothes ) ! we tend to take profiles with a pinch of salt and will only arange to meet people with pics and after speaking on the phone. recently i have looked at several profiles of apparent couples only to find at the female part it says " no-partner " and then they claim they clicked on couple by mistake!!!
your not fooling anyone guys!!! lol
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