Relaxed, nonsmoker, drink socially, look to meet with people for some fun times.

I have a particular interest (beyond that of curiousity) in BDSM with numerous long term experiences over the past 15 years.

I would also describe myself as a serial voyeur, I have in the past been quite comfortable to pull up a chair and watch people having sex without even getting undressed myself (by invitation obviously). Bizarre? Some would think so, the people I watched thought it very erotic...

Oliver Wendell Holmes (US author & physician, 1809-1894) said: Man's mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions.

I love being part of 'stretching minds', and curiously, do not necessarily have to have sex with people to experience pleasure with them...

If you've read this far without being bored, and want to leave me with the challenge of bringing you over to the Dark Side (evil smile) write me an email.. I am incidentally also very capable of stretching other things too... :-)

Conneting on this website presume that we are all looking to do something that would be frowned upon by 'vanilla' people, I respect limits without caveat, and expect the same from playmates...

To the WhisperPolice... I whisper, and listen for whispers when I'm online, it is my preferred means of communication for a number of reasons that I will not bore you with... I hardly think it is a capital offence, if it is to you, we would more than likely have difficulty communicating...

Must say some profiles do make me smile:

"Looking for: Bi Single Male", and then in the body of the advert "NO SINGLE MALES" and wording to the effect that if you contact us we will make sure you do not survive the thermonuclear strike we will call on your location...