I'm coming to all this later in life than most of you I know but life is short they say, so why not? I hope that I will appeal to one or two of you that say in your ads that older men appeal to you. there may even be something else in my ad that makes you think to yourself "Hm, this could be worth a try". I have joined for two very different reasons. Firstly I suspect that I may be Bi. There have been one or two encounters in the past that have made me suspect that I am and I'd like to find out for certain whether I am or not. For the ladies and couples out there, I'm told I have the body and outlook on life that would suit a 40 year old. Having not seen many naked 40 year old men I have to assume that the ladies that have said this know what they are talking about! I haven't done anything to achieve this, I don't spend my waking hours in the gym, just lucky I guess. I'm presentable, scrupulously clean, intelligent, and I'm told by others that I am considerate,warm hearted and pleasant to be with. I do tend to be a little shy when meeting people for the first time in a crowd but I deal with this quite quickly. All my bits still work, sometimes spontaneously and sometimes with a bit of prescription chemical help. I can't provide a photo at the moment but I'm working on that.