would like to meet a lady for friendship,and to get me through my first time,would prefer this to be one to one but maybe with husband present meet for drink first,then see where we go,lets be friends first though as im very nervous about this,discretion expected,i have wifes approval as she is no longer sexually active,age looks unimportant,but preference to those over 40,hope this gets me somewhere as ive not been with a lady for some time