We are Dave & Alice , We have been married for the last 9 years and over the last two have dabbled a little in the swinging scene but without much sucess I'm afraid, we have tried a few other sites but there seems to be far to many pushy people and time wasters out there for our liking and I'm afraid it has put Alice right of the scene for now :( We do not want to throw the towel in just yet but we are getting a little tired of all the time wasters We would love to meet a similar couple local to us if at all poss but we are able to travel although a couple close to home would be great Now hears the bit that seems to put a lot of others off we would like to take it slowly at first really get to know you first maybe a few nights out etc. before we take it any further we have found out that most couples want to play straight away sorry but this is not for us So if friendship is as important to you as it is to us please please get in touch.