ok i was having a descusion last night and wondered about this as a option quite a simple one if admit could set it up and it is simply adding a block button to the chat room so that anybody who des give you hastle or abuse you simply block them and they cant message you anymore.
what do you all think about that idea and mods would that make things a bit easier for you as well id like to hear your opinion on it
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boldbostonian
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
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ok first of all thanks to all the mods for offering their help and advice and i do agree with everything you say if anyone is getting abuse or greif then yes report them and would like to say thanks to you ALL fro your help and advice given to everyone on the site it cant be easy for you at all.
Also i dont think everyone is leaving because of the idiots on here but a precentage are leaving because of them. It is those people that the site doesnt need and if they are not reported or chalenged about their behavioure they will never be dealt with.
As for problems off the site then i would urge people to keep it that way off the site mabe things havnt gone your way but please dont drag it into the public arena in the chat rooms leave it wher it belongs off the site.
ok after reading the threads on here i have decided its time i started one for any answers that you can all come up with.
basicaly what im asking is if anyone here can come up with any idea as to why so may people are leaving the site. im sure the mods can read what the answers are and who knows mabe some of the problems/reasons can be ironed out in time.
not making anything up at all they are passed onto me in the chat roomas as for struggling with english i dont i just have seriouse problems putting it down on either paper or typing it.
apart from that i am very articulate. as for djandme she also has a second id which is kept quiet for differing reasons but on thet profile it also states that we are together and still the messages are sent. i did not say that you sent filthy messages you implied that yourself by mentioning it in your reply to my comment. as for saying that about my english well as i stated previously biggot is the best term for you and im guessing that you believe that i should not be on a site like this also as i have problems with typing and grammer
having seen you in the chat roomi can understand why you have run into problems and may also add that i never mentioned what was in the messages just that they get sent without people reading profiles and yes you have been guilty of sending them to my other half as for my punctuation may i just say that being as judgmental as you are just think that some people do have dificulties that at diferent times wher not recognised in schools i happen to be one of these people their for you do appear to be some kind of biggot in many diferent ways
hi true firstly god that you TRY to make a point but as a single once single guy im going to pass on some advice for you as i happen to be with one of the single women that you are talking about but at this point we have not paid to update the profiles and that would be both profiles.
firstly my other half gets constant whispers on here from guys like you and passes them all on to me so i knwo whats going on mail from guys like you which she passes on to me and yes people asking her to cam the problem with people like you is .....
1) you either dont know how to read or cant be arsed
2) if you do read the profile choose to ignore it
3) just think your better than whats written on the profile and can do what you want anyway
4) got your head shoved so far up your own arse you dont live in a real world
may i add as a single guy yes it is true that single guys dont have so much luck so to speak but i can totaly understand why couples and single women say no single guys as certain peple can be overpowering and pushy and if they would just show a little more respect to the couples and single women and get to know them then they may have more uck and meet more people on the site. chat and get to know people true listen and read what has been put on here and take notes it is all what many of us single guys (or once single guys in my case) take to be common sence take notes and learn something from all of the coments
i met my better half on here at a party organised by miss_serenity after we had all chatted on here and had a good laugh then at the party we got on and aranged a rivate meet few days later and havnt looked back since. now looking forward to getting married and the baby we have on the way
Ok i cant believe im doing this after the thread that miss put up but i am and want to say to all concerned that yes it is true me and carms are now together as a couple not swinging but love you all soooo much that we are going to come on and chat with you all just the same as always.
and already we have heard of people saying that we are just making the whole thing up now what do you want us to do to prove that it is genuin. if you have any questions then come and ask us we are happy to answer them and set you straight the whole thing has suprised both of us and im sure it has you as well but we are happy together.
ok just home from work and read what you said miss and thank you for doing it you are a greate mate.
and to all those who have been so judgemental and come up with all the rumours about the 2 of us i am the same as miss she has actualy talked me out of leaving the site on more than one ocasion.
if you do have something to say about us have the decency to come and say to either one or both of us and say it in public.
as for everyone that has replied to this so far i would like the opertunity to say thank you for your support and see you all in the chat rooms and keeep on swinging.[b]
