I've never done this before but since being single again, I'd like to put my toe in the water. I'd like to watch another couple to start with, that would be a turn on for both of us. I'm not sure about my g/f. Maybe she's into it, maybe not. I'll just start with me. But I do need a gentle, sensitive start even though I'm a self-confident and unruffled guy in everyday life. Thanks.