[quote="samalan"]Yin , you joined the site 2 and a half months ago and only seen you in chat as of this month. We have all been here on and off for years and all we ever wanted was fun!! We don t however like people slagging off people we are friends with and to comment on something you know nothing about is wrong. We all want enjoy the site with out any grief. After 7 years I think we have made lots of great friends and it is a shame for one person the ruin this. I had simply ignored this one person as I am selective who I choose to be friends with, I like people who if I tell them something in confidence then it to stay that way and also to repsect others feelings. Personally I do not think this is a lot to ask for. I think unless you know all the facts you can not comment!! This has effected a lot of people and thats not fair neither. I sincerely hope that admin sort it out as this can not continue. A few years back there would be 100 plus in chat of an evening now theres not even more than 25 on a friday night and that alone should speak volumes. We are easy going people but believe all should be treated fairly and this has not happened thanks to a certain Mod.[/quote]
Samalan, Why does the date we became members have anything to do with our ability to have an opinion on this rediculous spat? We have read, what we think is everything you and your co trouble causers have posted, So on the basis that you would have posted anything and everything you can think of to promote your views then we anticipate having all the information which is in the public domain. We are not naive enough to believe that the powers that be, i.e. the site owners, have released all the details behind their decision to remove your friend from their postition. Firstly we believe that while you contend to be standing up for your friend by conducting your purile vendetta against the 'Mod' concerned, you are in fact enjoying the oportunity to thrust yourself into the forefront of these forums and become some sort of white knight. The vendetta and sending to coventry of this person is nothing but childish bullying conducted by the usual playground gang who want to rule the playground, that you are not being allowed to do so only serves to antagonise you all further. Is the fact that you no longer have a friend as a 'mod' and able to conduct yourselves in a manner unacceptable to the site rules and get away with it, also not an issue with you? The site controllers will for sure have valid reasons to have taken the action they did.
The nature of this site suggests that there will be a lower age limit to be members of it, we would guess 18, therefore we contend that your friend is indeed a consenting adult and more than able to fight their own battles. While the support of your friend is praise worthy, it should be conducted in a private way, not on a public forum and certainly not by sending emails to us, ( and we would assume to anyone who will listen). This further promotes the view that you are in fact promoting yourself at the expense of your friends issue. You are conducting a childish, purile vendetta against an individual and the rediculous 'they said this, she said that so we did this', is pathetic and infantile. We joined this site to enjoy adult fun and thankfull have encountered more adults than children while online.
You say you have been members for 7 years, why then does your profile say you joined the site on 28 Dec 2009? That by our calculation is less than 15 months or has mathematics changed since we both left education?
We will not be responding any further to this thread as you will no doubt use the oportunity of reply to further vent your issues.
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It is surely about time this little temper tantrum was put to bed, not everyone can be liked by everyone, just as not every action from someone in authrority is popular. We're new to the site and therefore have no aliance to anyone. From what we see it's the kids rebelling against the adults. time to grow up and deal with real life. Life is tough, sometimes things go your way other times they don't, deal with it. It is getting very tedious reading 'he said this' she said that' allegations and counter allegations. Is this site meant to be a fun place to be and allow adults to meet mutually minded adults or somewhere for petty minded individuals to stir up ill feeling and resentment against other individuals.
If someone has been removed from a post then it is our contention that the person concerned has not performed to the standard required by the people in ultimate control.
To mount a campaign of hate and attempting to send an individual to coventry is infantile. thank heavens we have spoken to some grown ups on this site otherwise we'd be having second thoughts. It's just great we know the children are in the minority
Yin
