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oh, and can someone explain to me what a 'proffessional' job is? is that the opposite of an un-professional one...?:haha:[/quote]
I didnt catch on untill i saw ur post biggirl,
and i also found it offensive, im a big girl also, but i didnt take my facial shots off because off that. I jst didnt want the whole world seeing me, and getting in my space. There are somethings u want to keep, dignity, is one of them. May i also add biggirl you are beautiful, by mika, u defo got ur user name right.
its not about how small u are or how big u are, its about the person inside.
I said PROFESSION pacha there's no comparison between what people perceive as a professional job or not is there.
I think the point that people are trying to make is that should pictures and profile be seen by work colleagues or friends and family it could become highly embarrassing for them.
Mr C[/quote]what made u think i was quoting you? i was making the point about people who dont put pics up because they have a 'professional' job...it means nothing, they are just trying to attach importance to themselves. and its normally the overweight not so good looking ones who use this excuse to get away from putting pics on their profile...
anyway, i dont care about what people think,
anyway, i dont worry about what people think, if they dont like it then tough. its probably because they arent swinging....[/quote]
[color="red"][/color][size="24"][/size]rant time btw:[color="indigo"][/color][size="18"][/size]
:fuckinghell:Pacha some of us are fat and are not ashamed of it! I for one have face on cam and body pics on profile (moved face pic from public when i became aware of the situation).
If someone is not interested then so be it but
[size="24"]your post was plain rude and offensive[/size]!!:fury:
I moved my face pic to private as i have to protect my career. I am not afraid of someone not wanting to contact in case they are put off, as you seem to suggest, of members who are less than stunning!!
I am a teacher and as such could be sacked for what would be seen as prodessional misconduct and because i would be seen as a 'threat' to the kids.
I am not trying to place more importance upon myself or others who have professions that are sensitive to such criticism. I am just aware that not everyone would be able view the sexual practise of swinging as natural and have no interest of ending up barred by the GTC!
[size="18"]Get real![/size]
Not everyone is enlightened.
BTW i have avoided putting anything in this thread for weeks now while i calmed down about Pacha's statements. Still not calm so decided that i could not leave it to others to do all the comments- lovely though the replies to him were :grin:
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I'm not gonna miss this one, if thats ok with u CC. Wild horses wouldnt keep me away.
i so cant wait.