Hi all havent been a member that long so no meets yet been on cam a few times tho im just realy worried that if i do get a meet they will laugh at me because im chubby a know for alot of yous this will sound totally stupid but am realy self concience about it and thats also y i have yet to post pics so am i being stupid or am i being true to me self dignity ? x
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Welcome to the site, there are lots of people all different shape and size's, so don't let that worry you. Just get to know people through the chatroom and be yourself and you will be fine. Meets don't happen over night so don't expect instant success as most people like to chat first and get to know you. Social events that members host through out the country is a good way to meet people and they can put a face to you as photographs and webcams don't always show the best side of you. Have a read of 'Chatroom tips for newbies' as this has alot of good information that will help you on your way. If your in the chat and have any problems with anything, even if you think its daft, just ask as we all were new once. The members that have gold stars next to there names are site moderators (Yes they like fun too), these will help you out.
Hope this has helped you out.
[quote user=rdan69]Hi all havent been a member that long so no meets yet been on cam a few times tho im just realy worried that if i do get a meet they will laugh at me because im chubby a know for alot of yous this will sound totally stupid but am realy self concience about it and thats also y i have yet to post pics so am i being stupid or am i being true to me self dignity ? x[/quote]
There is someone out there for everyone, no matter what shape, size, colour, orientation etc etc. So let go of the inhibitions and bung some photos up there...can't really progress without them!
So good luck in your hunt and welcome to the wacky world or weirdos, perves and people with disgusting past times! Great ain't it!!!! lol
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Honey let me ask you this... if you met a girl who you really liked and fancied, would you laugh at here if she had a bit of cellulite, a few stretch marks and a bit of a belly?? A decent person wouldn't. Because attraction is a lot more than just physical appearance...trust me.
Besides, EVERYONE (even supermodels) has something about their body that they do not like. If a person doesn't like you for who you are then they are not worth your time anyway.
We all (swingers included) come in all different shapes, sizes, colours etc. and it is our differences that make us unique.
So embrace these differences, be happy with what you have and have fun!
xxxx
..............well said hun............ :clap:[quote user=oliviak]Honey let me ask you this... if you met a girl who you really liked and fancied, would you laugh at here if she had a bit of cellulite, a few stretch marks and a bit of a belly?? A decent person wouldn't. Because attraction is a lot more than just physical appearance...trust me.
Besides, EVERYONE (even supermodels) has something about their body that they do not like. If a person doesn't like you for who you are then they are not worth your time anyway.
We all (swingers included) come in all different shapes, sizes, colours etc. and it is our differences that make us unique.
So embrace these differences, be happy with what you have and have fun!
xxxx[/quote]
You can tell oli listened at school where as me i looked out the fookin winda.:doh:
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WEll folks thanks very much for the replys it is realy appreciated as it was worrying me av taken on board all of the comments yous have all made and now i can put it to the test yous all seem like realy nice people and to be honest i havent spoke to anybody on the site who is nasty or anything im just so glad i got this off ma chest and put it out there once again thanks very much look forward to getting to know u all in due coursexxx
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:welcome: rdan, im sure ul hav a blast, im always twatted:fuckinghell: and i make absolutly no sence most of the time, sooooooo jus ignore me and i sant cpell 2 mave se life!!
oh and iv got a very bruised arse.....:grin:
oh and iv got a very bruised arse.....:grin: Sex God
sexy mw, can u bring sum sat please??
and can u put it on for me.....cus i cant reach properly??? 
