So, I signed up because I want more sex in my life, I like being single and I'm not keen on picking up blokes in bars. So far, I've had an awful lot of messages, two sounded nice, and I'm arranging to meet one (lost the other one :-( ) I'm not a prude, but some of the offers have been a bit, well, lacking in subtlety.
This might be great fun, or the stupidest thing I've ever done in my life. I want to meet decent blokes for a bit of fun, no strings, but respecting each other. And yes, I'm a bit nervous.
Ladies, am I being naive?
Don`t give up yet there are lots o nice blokes on here. you will get the message morons but if somebody sends you the the ol fav shall we fukk message jus delete it an keep goin you`ll be ok jus give it a bit of time. :haha::haha:
Oh an :welcome:
Norff.
hiya babes, welcum, and trust me i kno how u feel cus i felt the same wen i joined.....but if u wanna any advice or if u wanna kno if anyone is genuine, cum n ask me, think i kno everyone on ere now and lets face it, every1 knows me!!
but always happy to help babe....and im 100% genuine and trustworthy and im a fellow single, well sort of fem!!..
funkyD xx
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Thanks peeps! Looking forward to getting to know you
Katharine
Hi Katherine
You have come to the right place to meet some seriously nice and sexy fellas...
Hope you find what you seek in others and if you need any advice just ask in here or chatroom hunni, lots are willing to try and assist you xx
Take care have fun xxx
Take your time.
Be fussy.
Take your time.
Have your rules and stick to them.
Don't be rushed or pressured.
Take your time.
Use to chat as well as SP.
Take your time.
Read their profile Comments.
And most of all enjoy! It's all about fun!!
Did I mention anything about taking your time?
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Hi Katherine and welcome to SP!
I agree with the comments made above. There are some really nice people here and some not so nice. Trust your instincts and stick with what you want and don't be pressurised into anything, including responding to every whisper in the chatroom!
I am a single girl here and started out being active in the chatroom and went along to the annual meet at MK, but most importantly, my profile tells it exactly how it is! I have had great fun with some very sexy guys here and you can too!
If you need any help/advice please ask.
Ebs xx
hey katherine best thing to weed out the bad apples is dont accept whispers in chat unless you have had some open room contact. most of the chancers dont waste time and go straight for the whisper. welcome to the site xx
[quote user=dave_chani]hey katherine best thing to weed out the bad apples is dont accept whispers in chat unless you have had some open room contact. most of the chancers dont waste time and go straight for the whisper. welcome to the site xx[/quote]
this advice is spot on
amazing how many guys:
1) try to whisper to several women in the room one after the other, giving the same old lines;
2) don't realise that we ladies talk to each other and warn of some idiots when in the room.
My advice would be to think of it rather like crossing the road...
look, listen, check again
Most importantly, Katharine.... have fun!:thrilled:
You know whats funny about the whispering thing, I always whisper (coz some things aren't meant for the room) and have never once asked before I did it... well maybe in our first week here, about 150 years ago.... and not once yet have I been asked not to, I wonder if its coz I dont whisper....
'show me your cock'
'you gonna do a show for me?'
'stand up so I can see your ass'
Aaaww bless the single men and their hob nailed boots
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Oh biggirl please don't...they may just do it and scare the bejeezus out of us! lol
Hi Katharine, I have only been on this site a couple of months and have been having a blast. At first I was completely overwhelmed in the chatrrom and no one knew me and I didn't know anyone and everyone ignored me! :-|
But I took my time and eased myself in gently until finally a couple of the regulars took pity on me and started chatting to me. :happy:
All I did was ask for a bit of advice from some of the SP oldies (most of them are more than willing to help) and my initial screening process before meeting anyone in person was to see if they had any comments and whether or not they were established (and by who).
So just take it at your own pace, trust your instincts and NEVER meet anyone unless you have talked to them on webcam. Us single girls ALWAYS have to put our safety first.
And most importantly enjoy yourself!!!!!
Good luck hun
Olivia xx
And Katerine, you could always think about going to one of the socials. There are several due soon!!
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Oh yes the socials Katherine. If you look in the lets meet up section in the forums there is a southern social in Colchester coming up in a couple of weeks. I noticed from your profile you are in London. Both mwm and I are both in London and we are going (mwm owes me 2 drinks hehehe). It will be a good way of meeting a few of the regulars over a drink and a chat. We need some more peeps in London!!!
And Oliviak does a fab breakfast! :bounce:
Ohhhh full english breakfast... when should we arrive Olivia??
I do make a good full english I must say... crispy bacon and egss with a runny middle... yummy!
whats an egss? does it compliment a full english?
Oh haha jo!
We are meant to be giving Katherine advice...
Oh yeah sorry
Katherine my advice is don't try the egss I think they sound dodgy!
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:laughabove::laughabove: :laughabove: Oh Jo you are SOOOOOO funny! :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: lol xxxx
Then lunch? oohh no brunchfast yummy !
Katherine? Was it something we said? :bounce:
... no hun you are not being naive just new and cautious. Listen to your instincts and if it doesn't feel right then don't do it. There's a few who know all the tricks so my advice would be to ask a moderator or an established member if you are in any doubt ... good luck xxx
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