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What am i doing wrong??
you dont have any pics luv, i for one wouldnt look twice at a profile with no pics. and when i say pics i dont mean 10 shots of your cock lol and also there are ways of avoiding your face being shown.
also if your on here purely looking for single women, then maybe this isnt the right type of site. im not saying there arnt single women on the scene as they are, but if you compare that with the amount of men that are looking for them then the numbers are not in your favour.
only advice i can give you is that when i was single and looking for fun, i was down the local pub or down the clubs. always a good thing to be doing as well.
good luck though, and dont give up on the site, as there are active single women who do swing. just be patient, and when in the chat room try and make friends other then comments like get your tits out. duno that might do it for some women but ive yet to meet one. lol
carly xxxx
Hi
Thanks for that.
Yes i understand what you say but that does not excuse ignorance.
It takes no time at all to say thanks for your message but no thanks.
Another big problem...I loathe pubs and clubs with a passion you cannot begin to imagine....lol
Thats why i am here.
As for pics...all they gotta do is ask and i will send them a pic or two.
I'm not just looking for single women.
I am looking for fun.
if thats a single woman great..if its a couple great if it is dogging fun great.
i'm just looking to put a bit of spice back into mu life.
Stevie B...X
well if your looking for couples then the numbers arnt so agaisnt you lol
if you look on some other forums you will see your not the only one who doesnt get replys, and your also not the only one who isnt happy about it.
you are right it does only take a moment so say thanks but no thanks, but i for one did that and it didnt turn out well. no need for details but im sure you can guess how rude some people can be when you tell them your not interested.
just think of it this way if they dont email back, then they are not worth your time in the first place. you will find the genuie people looking for single males will reply, wether they are interested or not.
on your picture comment all i can comment on is my personal views, and i wouldnt ask for a picture as i honestly dont look twice at profiles with no pics.
anyway wish you all the luck on the site. and hope you find the fun lol many people do on this site, i promise!!
mwah xxx luv carly xxx
Post edited 08-03-2006 16:21
Hi again..
Thanks for that.
yeah i guess you are right about the pics thing.
Trouble is i really don't want to be seen by anyone i know and, believe me, that is a very distinct possibility.
If i don't get some sort of encouragement with the first month then i won't be renewing my membership.
There are much better ways to waste money.
I am already fed up with sending out messages to people only to get not one single reply of any kind.
Ignorance is one thing i really hate.
People seem to think its okaty to be ignorant because its just a web site.
Wrong...its just as rude as if you did in in real life.
thanks for the advice anyway.
Stevie...X
Nothing ventured nothing gained. If you don't have any pics up, no-one will recognise you but then, no-one will reply to you either. You have to ask, if someone sees you that knows you, what were they doing here too?
As for not getting any replies, first check that the profiles you are writing to are active. Some people haven't logged in to their profiles for months. Then, check that the profiles you are writing to are looking for what you are offering. If they say no single males, they mean it and you cannot expect them to reply. Even we will not reply to those that haven't read our profile, why should it be necessary to say everything twice?
Der...thanks for stating the bleedin obvious.
I know about only sending to active girls and i know to send messages only to girls who are looking for the same as me.
I know that 'no single males' means exactly that.
Thats why i am frustrated at no replies.
I have only sent messages to ACTIVE single girls who are looking for ACTIVE single guys.
As for the pics thing.
Like i said...if someone wants a pic what is the problem with saying 'Can you send me a pic please?'
[quote user=stevieblue]Hi again..
I am already fed up with sending out messages to people only to get not one single reply of any kind.
Ignorance is one thing i really hate.
People seem to think its okaty to be ignorant because its just a web site.
Wrong...its just as rude as if you did in in real life.
thanks for the advice anyway.
Stevie...X[/quote]
Totally agree, seems that ignorance IS bliss to a lot of people on here.
Post edited 22-04-2006 12:38
