Swingers clubs... is it frowned upon if you dont swap??..

20 Apr 2009

If me and my girlfriend go to a swingers club (probably in Blackpool..) and we don't swap, will it be frowned upon.? The other thing is do men 'try it on' with every woman in there, even whilst their fucking? Not keen on the thought of me with my girlfriend as a couple of other blokes try and get some one way or another thinking as she's in a club she must want all men, etc..

21 Apr 2009

Answer should be a 'no' on both counts, but we would suggest a 'couples only' night and defo go take a look, it is an experience xxx

21 Apr 2009

I definatly want to take a look. :eeek: Clarie xx

21 Apr 2009

Wark hun it would be an honour to take you clubbing for a snogging!!...yummmmmmmmmmm xxx

23 Apr 2009

been to the "local" swingers club with the ex ages back but it was just the once and it was to sort somthing out she was planning on doing, if you've not been before it can be abit of a shock but we're all adults here ^^ defo go on a couples night singles night is mainly full of blokes, oh and make sure you wear smart dress, I had this guy ball me out for wearin my bike leathers when i dropped the ex off, annoying thing was the ex brought clothes to change into and not tell me =p though the hostess came up to me later and sort of said sorry for the guy.

21 Jul 2009

[quote user=jelandn]Answer should be a 'no' on both counts, but we would suggest a 'couples only' night and defo go take a look, it is an experience xxx[/quote] Got to quote Jels here - deffo go on a couples night for your first time, that way there is no pressure to do anything more than what you are comfortable doing. The clubs we've been to have very strong rules on "no" meaning no which is the way it should be. Also, make sure you both talk it over beforehand so you both know what your limits are - no need to rush into things which one half is not ready for so set yourself some clear boundaries for the first time. If you want a chaperone at any time, let us know! :wave2::wave2::wave2:

2 Aug 2009

clubs are like women and shopping you dont have to buy .... but usually do ... just do what u are both happy with no one will question it xxx

5 Aug 2009

i go to swingin club wiv mr markie and we dont swap...:angel: we observe.....oooohhh observe im gettin posh....i like that oh and we fuck and othas watch.....:doh: funky nutta xx:P

11 Aug 2009

:love::angel: wey funky no good us coming to same club as you then if you dont swap boo hoo xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

12 Aug 2009

she'll let you watch though blink

12 Aug 2009

We'll bring a picnic hamper, a few beers and some portable chairs then if there's a show going on! lol :evil2::evil2::evil2: P&H

14 Aug 2009

Same as Funky here... We dont swop but occasionally the odd hand might be on the wrong body lol

15 Aug 2009

:evil2::evil2: We'd like to get our odd hands on your body Blondes!!! :happy::happy::happy:

1 Jul 2012

Only do what your comfortable with. And like the others have said, go on a 'cpls night' as you might get too pressured by some of the single males who try it on. A bit like the chatroom on here, where pming/whispering is forbidden, but they do it all the time. Just ignore them.