If you are a newbie looking to get started, and a single guy, do all you vets out there recommend going to a singles night at a swinger's club, or sticking it out online and trying to make contacts?
We would recommend a visit to a swingers club. They aren't frightening places at all contrary to meeting some single blokes initial thoughts were. It's just the same for couples as well you know !
The web can be OK and chatters might be an option.