Not happy

29 Jan 2006

ok so ive toned down my explicit add to make it better for the masses and still no replys. i dont get it, i guess bi males are the scourge of the swinging world. I may be a bit skinny but i dont think im overly ugly. oh well. Wonder if any other guys are getting some attention?

29 Jan 2006

You've amended your profile a few hours ago, and you're already disappointed that you've had no responses or anyone throwing themselves at your feet in a few hours? DO YOURSELF A FAVOUR! Have at least some patience, for God's sake! You're not going to get results the day you join or make a significant amendment to your profile. What is it that you think makes you so different from 50,000 (give or take a few) other single males on the site? What is it that makes you think you're so privileged, that you will get results within the first few days of joining? It's people like you who end up really pissed off in a matter of a few hours or days, and slag the site off, because they think the site has nothing to offer them. I was a member for FOUR MONTHS before my first meet took place! Don't bank on immediate results, 'cos it simply isn't going to happen! WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD.... Post edited 29-01-2006 23:15

30 Jan 2006

Hi Rob] Just be patiant give ure add time to be read and u will get replies and meets, if u expect things to happen st8 away u wont it takes more then reading a profile to meet people u have to get to know people first once u get to knwo and build a nice repor in the room things will change. There is life out there justtake ure time. Chri n Vera :doggy: :doggy: :doggy:

31 Jan 2006

We were members for 4 months before our first meet....Patience is a virtue in this lifestyle, we give it and expect to receive it too...xxx

1 Feb 2006

I "paid up" on Valentines Day last year and ye to meet up through the site. Left plenty of messages and no replies. Do I give up? NO - because I have met many good and genuine peeps though chat etc. Had a good laugh and enjoying the banter. My advice is dont join if your just looking for a shag - swinging is a lifetyle and more about friendship and trust that a "one night". Granted there are some members who enjoy one nighters. So get yourself noticed in chat, in the forums. Market yourself. Make friends - gain respect and trust. Enjoy and be happy Cas

1 Feb 2006

Cas, spot on advice...xx

4 Feb 2006

cas your advice is well on. I agree I keep getting my lines wrong and give a missleading chat but I know oneday Ill get it right