New and unsure

25 Mar 2007

Hiya folks,Im new to this and dont know how to get started or where to go. I know most swingers parties prefer couples,But im a single male. Any help much appreciated.

26 Mar 2007

hiya and welcome!.. have a look at the thread 'chatroom tips for newbies' on this forum- some excellent advice written by another single male who is now a valued member of the site!! Come into the chat room, even tho it will seem too fast and daunting at first, and let people get to know you. Just remember politeness and respect to all members at all times and I'm sure you'll get along great. Have fun!! x Post edited 26-03-2007 13:23

26 Mar 2007

Hi and welcome, There are alot of people out there looking for single males as well. I good way of getting to know people is to try and get to some of the social events that members are doing, you can find them in the LETS MEET part of the forum. Another place is in the PARTIES section which can be found in the navigation area.

30 Mar 2007

Hi cockyone and welcome to the world of swinging..e along to the socail meet in june at mk = milton keynes.. this will be its second year running and is very popular as we have well over 180 coming... its a grt way to meet up with other swingers who are cpls singles etc because its a social at a public place there is no pressure and its all abt having a few drinks chat and laugh with like minded people... and for some a naughty nite in a hotel lol

you will most deff meet single who want to meet up at a later date and also cpls who are happy to play with single guys... they are out there... so come along lets see you there mwahh MO XX

30 Mar 2007

Mo the marketing manager for MK2 - work it baby hehehe :clap:

31 Mar 2007

MO said: "you will most deff meet single who want to meet up at a later date and also cpls who are happy to play with single guys... they are out there..." They certainly are. It might seem like a lost cause at first, Cocky, but stick with it, talk to people naturally in the chatroom, and gradually you will find that people will start to trust you and be more willing to arrange meets. Many couples do not advertise on their profiles that they meet single guys, otherwise they'd be killed in the rush! However, those same couples will often consider meeting single guys that they've formed a rapport with in the chatroom. The only way to find out is to get to know them first! I know what I'm talking about, because I'm in your position and used to feel exactly the same way. Happily, things changed for me after a while (took about 6 months!), and they continued to get better and better from then on. smile

Happy hunting, Suds