Nervous Newbie - Few Questions.

8 Oct 2007

Hello everyone, just wanted to say hi and ask a few questions. Completely new to this, been debating whether to sign up or not for a while now. Now that I have I feel pretty nervous and have no idea what to do - but I suppose we all had to start somewhere! There's just a few aspects I'm unsure of: - what kind of pictures are generally best? I'm a bit worried about putting my face on just yet, and I don't think the gratuitous cock shots are very attractive. That leaves me with a normal pic of myself with the head cut off or face blocked out. Not gonna get a whole lotta info from that! - Also, I've read most of the info for new people, but are there any specific pieces of etiquette or advice for contacting members? - And what about posting details of your penis size in your profile. Good/bad idea? Thanks for any answers, looking forward to meeting new people and trying new things. Feel free to swing by my profile and give any feedback about it. Say hi while your there! G x

22 Oct 2007

[color="red"][/color] Hi there Gon, In my opinion when I perv a mans profile I personally like to see a body if you have noone to take a pic for you I would say go in the bathroom strip off to maybe a nice pair of fittered boxers and arrange a mirror so you can see the screen as you take a pic of what I do or I end up taking 9 pics of my left hip! I can understand why you are concerned about putting a face pic on your profile. Why not put a face pic in your private gallery then you can mail it to a person if a meet has been discussed. As for other pics of the equipment ahem! I personally enjoy a cock pic but when the person who owns the cock is a idiot it makes no difference if you have 9 ". As long as your personality and attitude towards ladies is right a cock pic is not needed. When mailing ladies always be polite and say that you would love to get to know them a little or chat in the chat room so say hi next time you are dont come out with "Hi I think your great do you want to meet up" Why not say you want to know more about them,and hope that your profile interests them in some way. When describing yourself in the profile be honest and maybe say why you chose to it been one of those things you always wanted to do or something someone said to you which made you think of it. Good luck and sorry for waffling lol. Most of all be honest,polite,respectful and get in the chat room and natter or go to some socials and just say hi. All the best. Fruit xxxxx

26 Oct 2007

Hi Gon and :welcome: to SP, happy swinging xx xx Fruit that was some of the best advice i have ever read. You need to paste that into the chat room tips for newbies so everyone reads it. xxx

27 Oct 2007

Another Scottish person slipped through my fingers and made it down to England

:banghead: Oh well never mind,:welcome: To the mad house, and if your ever back up in sunny scotland, then give me a shout:rascal::rascal: have fun and chat to you soon in chat. miss ccrider xxxx