Need some advice

11 Feb 2008

Hi I new here and I'm looking for some advice. I'm in my thirties and very sexually inexperienced. I'm looking for someone to have some fun with and gain some experience, some one to teach me would be nice. I'm currently going through a sexual awakening and I'm really feeling the need to have sex. I originally joined up by chance. I was a little curious about swinging and I've found this site very interesting. Everyone seems so normal. :-) I am interested to know what it would be like to be with a couple, however I don't want that for my first experience. How should I go about finding someone? Am I going about it the right way? Thanks.

12 Feb 2008

Welcome..... Yes, contrary to the general opinion we are all friendly NORMAL people.(well..some of us lol). Best way to get to know people on here is to pop in the chatroom - it can be daunting and I wont lie, the first few times you may not get much of a conversation going with people. But that can be the best way as you get to understand the culture and nature of the chat. Some things are no-go areas ( directing people in cams is a def no-no _ and offensive chatter wil get you booted out. But dont let that put you off please! You will find that as a single male on here it will be harder to get noticed purely because of sheer numbers of single males that we have onsite. It can take time and perseverance but it is well worth it. Good luck!