need help and advice

25 Jun 2007

I have been on this site as a single man for a short while and not had any luck. However l have been going out with a great lady for 5 months and we have only just realized that we both want to swing. We are very tactile, love watching and being watched and need some advice about dogging in East Sussex. We are both professional people and would like to meet the same around the ages of 40 to 55 and someone maybe to give Julie her first bi experience - can anyone help? smile

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25 Jun 2007

hi!.. first thing you need to do is change your status to that of a couple.. it is very important that from the start members can see who they are speaking to and no confusion arises. Secondly, try using the search members facility on the home page. By entering your postcode it will list all members in that area - alternitvely, use the advanced search where you can be more specific. Come into the chatroom sometimes - I know it can be daunting and it can seem like everyone knows everyone else... but remember we were all new once!! This is an ideal way to chat and make friends- it also gives members an idea about who you are : your likes/dislikes etc. Happy swinging! xxx