I posted this in answer to a single male asking for tips and have been asked to post this as a new thread.
What sort of pics should I put on my profile.......In my opinion when I perv a mans profile I personally like to see a body if you have noone to take a pic for you I would say go in the bathroom strip off to maybe a nice pair of fittered boxers and arrange a mirror so you can see the screen as you take a pic of yourself. My other way of doing it is standing on my bed and taking a pic while on what I do or I end up taking 9 pics of my left hip!
Face pics?...........
I can understand why you are concerned about putting a face pic on your profile. Why not put a face pic in your private gallery then you can mail it to a person if a meet has been discussed.
As for other pics of the equipment ahem! I personally enjoy a cock pic but when the person who owns the cock is a idiot it makes no difference if you have 9 ". As long as your personality and attitude towards ladies is right a cock pic is not needed. Remember that as a lady I like to make sure I can see a face pic as I need to feel an attraction to want to look more into a persons profile. Also please dont put a pic on before you put on 2 stone in weight!!!!
Cams......... I would say get a cam, mine was on £16 and get into the chat room and say hi to people you are a newbie and ask for any advice from the peeps chatting. Hopefully you may get a few words spoken to you and hey presto you are chatting. If I see something funny then I will ofetn add a comment in.
Mailing people.......
When mailing ladies always be polite and say that you would love to get to know them a little or chat in the chat room so say hi next time you are dont come out with "Hi I think your great do you want to meet up" Why not say you want to know more about them,and hope that your profile interests them in some way.
When describing yourself in the profile be honest and maybe say why you chose to it been one of those things you always wanted to do or something someone said to you which made you think of it.
Good luck and sorry for waffling lol.
Most of all be honest,polite,respectful and get in the chat room and natter or go to some socials and just say hi. Remember there are LOTS of single males out there, so be PATIENT and always polite. TRy to get in the chat room and chat and get to some socials to meet people.
All the best. Fruit xxxxx
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I would just like to add a few it was well written and to the on ya girl.
When in Chat dont Perv and Whisper,9 times out of 10,you wont get an answer,or it`ll be a stern,"Dont Whisper Please",say Hello to everyone then ask the person you want to chat with.
Another point is,when in chat,have a look at there profiles as well,you maybe surprised,its not what your looking for.
All You Straight Guys,need to take note.(If your Straight your not BI,so dont pester US that are).
See you in Chat,Debbs X
id like to add my 2 pennoth worth.....ive been a single guy on here and now as a couple ive seen both sides of the coin
first off....like fruity says.......respect, politeness and patience counts for everything....dont expect the first girlie you speak to is gonna want you.....dont expect that this place is gonna offer very easy sex....your gonna be very very disapointed.....single guys have to work very hard to get any where.....take your time to build freindly realtionships with people first......chat in the chat room to get yourself known.....
as now a couple i get to see the mail people send to us....oh boy do people need to smarten up thier acts.....a single line justaint gonna do it.....and another thing....make sure you have some pics on your profile.....especially a face pic...even if its in the private gallery....
and somthing thats annoying me at the mo....take time to look at and read peoples profiles..(even when you are in the chatroom and go to whisper)....waste of time contacting someone if you dont fit what you are looking for....they will not even bother replying and you will be sat there thinking 'why dosnt anyone ever reply to me'....
and something else.....and this is aimed at everybody not the noobs........update your profile occasionally.....im tired of looking at profiles that say 'new at this' and theyve been a member for over 18 months!!.....sorry but you are new if you only been here a few months
sorry fruity.....rant over......normal service has been restored :happy:
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I hate the gym... but don't they say a good sex session is equivalent to running 5 miles or summat????? So if we were all to have a five mile equivalent sex session every day we would all have bodies to die for.... :giggle:
