Hi...Just a few tips required by you more experienced couples and single girls.......What are the best things to say in making contact in an e mail...have sent quite a few and not one reply...Something Im doing / saying wrong??? Hope someone out there may have some ideas and what you girls like to read...Thanks
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Making First contact.....Tips please
Hi cab, we spoke earlier in the chat room. Just now sat down and had a look at your profile and have to say what you have written is very well put. I have to admit there is nothing wrong with what you have written and will certainly interest the ladies.
The pics you have put on are also great and pleased to see you have made the effort to listen to what people have suggested about pics.
As for what to say when mailing ladies.... Well always refer to them by name,refer to their profile in some way to show that you have read their profile and digested what has been written. For example if you perv at my profiile (please do as I have you lol) you will notice I am a single lady but am now only playing as a couple with my boyfriend drew. So it would be boring if you mail me and ask if I play alone at all. As that would instantly knock you off my interested to know more about list lol.
What else can I suggest. A nice comment is always good even if you just mail them to say how nice their profile pic is. It is best to not mail those who have said they dont want single males. Always be respectful and say that you would love very much to get the chance to know more about them. It is always best to aim to get to know people as friends than to aim to get in their pants or knickers in the first 3 mails. The single men I want to meet are the ones I have spoken to time and time again in the chat room. Not those who mail me once then say ok so when are we gonna meet. I only have a certain amount of spare time and there are still people I want to meet but trying to arrange scheduals are hard.
Stay with it ok but keep commin into the chat room and get your name down for some of the forum meets xxxxx Fruit xxxx
